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PostPosted: Thu Dec 03, 2009 1:45 am 
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Hi there,
I'm new to gaming and this is my first post :) from everything I've read about pick-up I still have this question...
How do you pick up girls in a noisy club? Because it seems to me that the majority of sarging consists of talking and conversation, and this is obviously a lot harder to do when the music is so loud you have to shout for them to hear you.
Some of my friends simply try to grind on girls while they dance, but this doesn't always work out...lol!
Thanks in advance for the advice guys!

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LOL,
Great question...and that's a harder one. Loud club game has much more to do with body language than conversational skills. You have to have a good frame, keep your rap short and display that you're "take charge." Especially if there's a dance floor around.

A friend of mine has a quick video about dance floor and club game. I've posted it on my blog if you wanted to check it out. pumaskills.com / blog / dance

you might like it. Welcome to the board though Deebo

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I love hanging out in the smoking area a lot for this reason. If I can get just 5 minutes outside with a few sets each, then I can usually either re-engage or continue the interaction inside, without much need for constant banter. If the set warmed to you initially, then you can just roll right onto the dancefloor, catch one of their eyes, smile and go right into the set and start dancing with them. It's not creepy or weird because they already know you and like you from before, and for every set you do this with on the dancefloor, you're building social proof in the club as you go.


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That's where your confidence gets amplified X10 in my opinion.
Your body language should yell, I'm confident! I'm fun!

One way is to approach, build a bit of attraction (being playfull and funny, dancing with her, making crazy moves <-- but not too weird, MAKE HER LAUGH) and then try to go to isolation. Lead hear away from the dancefloor to the quieter part and then go verbal.
An example would be:

I see a HB dancing, I come join her with a big smile, I touch her a bit but not in a sexual way ( any touch is good, high five, tap on shoulder,...) by seconds you should be able to take her hands while dancing, it's different with every girl but it shouldn't be too hard (atleast on HB7-7.5 and below, didn't try this stuff with HB8+). After a while (not too long because all kinds of shit can happen; someone else comes, she wants to go to toilet or w/e and you can't be like, "Yeah I'll join u in the toilet" because there you actually say: "I just want to fuck you"; whilst while dancing and having fun you are just having fun and being social) you take her hands and try to lead her away from dancefloor. If it fails just try to build some more attraction and try again.


But remember, show her you are having fun, with or without her, and that you have high value and are confident. So don't be leaning in and - like lovedrop said it - "pecking", you'll get to talk a couple minutes later.

That's how I would do it. But make sure you really ARE confident. All the pua's say that girls can smell fear and unconfidence when you approach. Well, in dancefloor game it's noticable even more because you can't rely on your canned material and stuff, it's all body language!

Oh and I forgot to add. Girls that are dancing on the dancefloor are having a ton of fun. You don't want to be the guy that ruins their fun by bothering them. That's why you should dance along and be realy cool. Try to match their fun levels and then add a bit more fun by giving them a dance partner that they/she can touch and get touched by - you. If the girl is just standing and being bored, you should use a different approach because like mystery said, you have to match your sets enthousiasm levels or be just a little bit more, but not too much.


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Thanks for all the help guys.

I never even thought about the smoking area, I'm definitely going to start hanging out there.

I think I need to work on my body language and confidence, usually I only get that after a few drinks, and then I'm just a drunken idiot lol

Great advice, thanks again

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