Get interesting, stupid! Talk about things, I just talk until somebody stops me usually, which is good because girls kind of pick up on this and interupt me when they talk then i use mystery's back to me. good stuff.
yeah man ur not exciting
enough, you not giving them
anyhing to say "wow this
guys really interesting"
this stops them from carying
on the convo with you...
have you tried demonstrating
Hey man based on your post I don't necessarily think your boring. I used to have the same problem with stuttering and stammering when I'm nervous talking to girls or in an interview or something. Its ok! Just practice talking to yourself in the mirror. Memorize some canned material thats not so main stream and recite it to yourself and it will help until you can learn your own material. GL
No the thing is i've stuttered since i was like 6...talking to family/friends/my roommate at this very moment/girls. I've read a perfect definition of people who stutter as "I don't stutter because I'm nervous, i'm nervous that i stutter". And i can tell when the girl is attracted to me, but when stuttering at times weird facial expressions are made i guess and that may be seen as a turnoff.
It's perfectly understandable bro.I have many friends myself whom have had stuttering problems.2 of them refused to acknowledge that and thought that people will respect them for who they are(They are pathetic),and there were those who took the time to beat back any speech impediment they ever had.
You have potential.Work on convo.I,too,suprisingly,used to stutter at times.It wouldn't matter in the end.Women are understanding.
however,one thing is right,dont give off a boring vibe.Try to go in more energetic.Get enthused.Find a hobby that makes you happy.Trust me,difference will come.