Hey fellow PUAs,

Been a bit quiet but now time to get back into the PU, Ive been active since 2002, ran and still do workshops that teach guys PU but Im here wanting to discuss older HBs, milfs.

What is everyone's experience with MILFs? Im just under 30 yo and recently met a very tidy 45 yo MILF. Her son is basically a few years younger than me...

Anyway at first she was OKish to meet.
We had lunch together (she got coffee and I got some chai latte).

She wore a nice summer dress and looked very nice indeed.

Our day 2 went well, but then she did the whole "im so much older than you" trying to blame me for her sexual urges and basically wanting me to take the blame that if we slept together then I am the naughty one, not she.

I played along with how bad it is and how innapropriate that she is much older than me and that we should stop have feelings for each other.

I then forgot about her and surprise, surprise, she starts texting me within a week. First she send some neutral "hey how are you" msges, now she is wanting to see me again.

So I figure she had time to internalise and realise that if she doesnt act now she may just miss out on being slammed by some young dude.

The thing is I have slept before with a 45 yo MILF before and the sex was amazing and I know for a fact that they are not clingy and just want a bit of fun on the side thus could potentially make a perfect fuck buddy.

Is this what some of you milf hunters have come across also?

My goal in the new year is to have a nice a MILF fuck buddy 40-45 yo.
A nice 18-20 yo fuck buddy.
And a 25-30 yo fuck buddy.

I want to cover the whole spectrum.

to be honest, I really would like a steady 45 yo fuck buddy and this woman would fit the bill nicely.

Any comments from past experiences with older women as far as fuck buddies go?

To be honest, i WISH i could get a MILF fuck buddy, you're way ahead of me dude.

_________________
Slept On Rappers
http://hiphoprising.blogspot.com

I've had a couple and they always throw the "I'm to old for you" routine in the face. I just reply with "yeah you're way to old from me anyways. Don't get me wrong. I think you're super sexy but it would never work out."

Then they always text because they no longer have the selection with men that they used to. Most don't go out to the bars and clubs and even if they do they are competing with younger women.

_________________
"Intelligence is nothing. Action is everything." -Tony Robbins

GirlCatcher,

Judging from your past experience, were MILFs a better fuck buddy material overall?

People want what they can't get. Older men love younger chicks and young guys have a thing for MILFs and cougars. When a woman objects to your age, it's a shit test. Basically they're saying you have lower value because you're not in their age range.

If a twenty-one year old girl objected to your age, you'd say...

"Did you know girls age faster than guys? Take models, for example. They peak at like seventeen. By the time they're nineteen they've passed their prime. They're middle aged. You're twenty-one, making you sixty-three in girl years"

When a woman told me that I was too young for her, I'd say this exact line but add...

"You're practically a senior citizen... Don't take this the wrong way but I'm an active guy and don't think you could handle me with your cane and all... I should introduce you to my grandmother, I think she's more your speed."

This generates attraction in 90.2% of women.

Here's a quick explanation...

When a woman says, "You're too young (or old) for me," she's establishing the underlying meaning of your interaction with her as her being the Prize you're trying to win over.

This underlying meaning is what I call the "Meta-Frame."

But... when you respond to her with the line above, it proverbially picks her up by the nape of her neck and sucks her into your Meta-Frame that you're the Prize she's trying to win over.

source: http://www.mpua.info/age.html