Yo wassup crew

Im 21 years old and i wanna know what to say to this one cute girl cuz i havnt said anything to her for 2 weeks. I met this girl about two months ago at a club. We dance n everything and got her number at the end. then the nxt day i texted her n everything was good, but the problem is that i was using my cuzins phone when i was texting her and i cant afford a phone at this time. anyway during that time i start texting her and the conversation was great, its not like i text her everyday, only a couple times a week so it wont seem like im desperate n shyt. Sometimes whenever im not with ma cuzin i tell him to txt her for me, so i can still keep in touch with her. the first time during the week i ask if she wanted to go and hangout with me on the weekend she was like yea, then when it was the weekend i txt her if she was still up for it n she just came up with sum bullshyt ass excuse n saying maybe nxt weekend, so i was like cool. then next week came up i txt her again, u kno having a great conversation for the first couple a days, then when friday came up i askd her u kno, if she had time to go hangout on saturday she was like yea.... ''can my friend come too'', and i was yea cool... n i was like can i bring my cuzin.... she like yea coo. well saturday came up, she didnt texted me and i didnt eaither for da whole day, so me n my cuzing ended up doing sum else dat night. So ALL thats been goin for like 3 week straight, i mean... i text her, have great conversation for couple days, ask her to hangout, she's like ya, and at then end i just don txt her that day when we suppose to hangout. Then after 3 weeks I just ended up not txting her for 2 weeks straight. after those 2 weeks I txted her again. And again the same shyt happens where i just dont txt her the day when we suppose to hangout. And again its been like 2 weeks that i didnt txt. So idk PUA, she probably thinks im crazy or something cuz i dont txt her at the end. So i wanna kno on whats the first thing i should say to her so i can probably u kno, go out with her this weekend, so it wont seem im just a txt buddy or sum shyt.

Alright mate,

you've probably lost the game already.. so seem so far in the Friends Zone that it's not even going to be worth chasing after.. actually.. you probably arn't even in the FZ if you don't hang out with her.. if after 3 weeks texting full on, and you're getting no where, and not meeting up - its pretty dead.

and come on dude.. get real - you need your own phone.. Tesco, Wall-Mart.. you've you a computer.. e-bay and you can get a basic handset for a few quid / bucks..

don't mean to sound harsh, but you gotta look at it from our point of veiw..

-Illusionist

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I think it's useless to keep trying.

If you're texting someone you cannot supplement that for not seeing them at all. I try to use texting as something to build to setting up a meet up- especially if I haven't met up with them since I got their phone number. When setting up a meet I try to word it as in I'm doing something, maybe you can tag along.

When you say hang out, it kinda is ambigeous and really leaves no desire to really wanna meet up.

However, she could just be a flake.

so wha.... does that mean to forget about her n just go meet up with a different girl, n yea ima get new phone cuz this shyt is going nowhere if im trying to meet up with girls with no cell

Yes, move on to a new girl.

Also, learn english and grammar.

It is frustrating to read posts like yours.

B-Man