Ok i got a phone call about 30 mins ago at 1:30 in the morn. It was this girl i used to work w/ and flirt w/ all the time. now mind you i was half asleep at the time, but she called me to tell me that she was drunk and she just broke up w/ her boyfriend. we talked for a little and then i said i had work in the morn so i had to sleep but that we'd hangout soon and she seemed happy to hear that but i was wondering whether i should have persued this further. maybe try to have met up w/ her? or get her to come over, she was at her girlfriends house and sd she was going to bed soon to, but i feel like i kinda left it short. any advice?

Also to add to that, should i call her to hangout tomorrow or wait? i've been out w/ her before and she is like an HB9 and i really don't wanna mess this up.

thnx

She is giving you a shot. Why not take up on this?

you should wait a few days and contact her. she was drunk and told you she broke up because she's attracted to you. I believe the same thing Neil Strauss does when he said that being drunk just releases your inhibitions. So dude you're already golden with her, you just don't want to be desperate. When you contact her, make sure to continue you flirting but turn it up a notch with kino and you should be good.

you definately could have shagged her that night,if shes that type of girl, but its definatley better you didnt. she would most likely be pissed off with you and think you took advantage of her, so you landed on your feet there.

as the other bloke said, wait a bit to call her, a few days or a week or until you see her next or whatever. play it cool, if you move in too quickly she will think all you want is sex or that youve been in love with her forever. play it cool, dont be her rebound and if your playing it cool enough you could end up with a hot girlfriend. btw, let her make the first move on you, flirt and everything, just dont kiss her or even try to, she will make a move on you eventually. if you can do that then you deserve her.

cheers, h.

You could have fucked her that night no problem, but you've, but youve missed out on an inportant piece of info.

what do what? a one/ten night stand? or is she more than that?

If your new to picking up HB's you will soon realise that there are MANY of them out there. It sounds terrible, but if your getting into being a PUA then i would have taken the experience, HB9 sounds good.

u could ahve gone through wiht it... u should ahve told her that you'd text her in the morning/afternoon... that way when she recives ur message shell remember your conversation.... then met up with her..... and carried on from there

thnx for the responses guys! i appreciate it and see where i went wrong. thnx and ill try better next time

I think by not going after her that night you have done the right thing, whats the rush?

Put things into perspective... she just rang you at 1.30am to tell you she had broken up with her boyfriend, massive IOI, why would she do that unless she wants you

My advice would be play it cool, she wants you so let her chase you. be confident in yourself. I wouldnt jump in to quickly as she may experience buyers remorse and cool things off afterwards but you defiently in a good postion

If it had been me receiving a call from a drunk chick that just broke up with her boyfriend.

DrunkHB: I'm drunk, i just broke up with asshat.
Me: We'll talk in the morning, I have to work in 5 hours -click-

I let crying chicks cry. I'm never consoling a gal after her breakup again (unless she's my friend). I'd prefer to let them finish the water works and then I proceed to run game. Sad chicks are so much easier to game in my opinion.

I try not to talk to girls about their ex boyfriends and them breaking up. It comes off as a friends conversation, and like someone said- you talk to your friends about that sort of stuff.
I would of said tried to slip outta of the situation and talk to her sometime later- maybe when she wasn't so emotional.

Just my two cents.

coming from a person with experience in this simmiliar situation heres my 2 cents. be there for her but not too there, listen maybee 15-20min tops and do what you can to take her mind off asshats situation and you. be there for her to pickup the peices but dont get stuck on a back burner for a possible reconciliation with asshat or a new guy.

hangout with here, and make a move early, kiss , bang w/e u wanna do bro. but make it