Ok, i really need some help. Just to let you know a bit about myself, im 17 and havnt had much luck with girls at all, ive had one gf and didnt get very far with her and earlier this year this other girl seemed to think it would be fun to fuck with my head then destroy my soul lol (lolling aside she really did piss me off) she chose this other twat instead of me which isnt good for anyone.

Anyway i'm just not good at talking to anyone really, i can never think of anything to say, i freeze up and i feel like i don't fit in. Almost like they don't understand me. I often find myself out in a pub just watching other people having fun yet I'm sat in a corner feeling self-conscious and a bit worthless. They make it look so easy to socialise and have fun yet when I try i usually make a fool of myself.

So i need your help folks, i need advice, tips, criticisms, recommended books and videos, links to similar threads, anything really to help get me talking to girls and being a more confident person. Thanks.

Oh yeah this is my first post so be nice lol.

Well judging your post you certainly know what you want to say. And it's a bit about that in the field to. Knowing what you want to say on the right moment.

Anyway books video's etc... well what did you see and read already? I like the Mystery Method and Style aka Neil strauss' book "the game".

But there's a lot of other good material out there. I guess it just depends what methods your comfortable with.

Either way, the most important thing: have fun!

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