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PostPosted: Thu Nov 19, 2009 2:54 am 
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I'm trying to talk to this girl who is kinda shy, and really quiet in class. I need some tips on how to open this girl up.


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Try to figure her out. Opening her wont even be a problem but the cube could do nice. And ask her some questions? Just remember lot's of girls pretend to be shy... when they open up they can be the freakcases of the class.. :P But if she really is shy, you gotta make sure you comfort her well...

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shy girls are kinda easy to open up with. just don't rush anything when approaching her. In some cases, there's insecurity involved. so make her feel good and herself. you can guide her way through opening up.

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People are very diffrently equipt socially.
Social and confident people have the tools to adjust while they are talking
to people that they dont know etc.

If you're trying to talk to someone who isnt very forward you need to meet her on her level.
If she talks slow. You need to slowdown.
If she has problems making eyecontact. Dont force her to make eyecontact.
If she has a unconfident bodylanguage. Adjust yourself to it.

Theese are all keystones in building rapport. Adjustment.

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well, so far I've done no kino at all, and i think thats been a problem. How can I include kino to make her comfortable?


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Try to relate to her, let her feel comfort when she's around you.

Shy girls have this shield around them, just to keep them safe from "bad influences".

Build it up really slow, so there's no pressure!


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yeah but im talking about how to start kino with her?


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Okey. Try this. 3 steps.

Talk to her.
Tell her something that involves your hands.
"I was cooking yesterday, almost cut my index finger of.
Imagine what I'd looked like whitout one. You got nice hands. (Grab her hand
quick, then drop it)

Next time
Another story. Shoulders.
Build comfort.
Find out something about her that she likes to do.
Ask her to hangout and do that.
Timebridge and hugh her when you say goodbye.

Text her. Let her know it was a nice day.

If you have IOI:s and your sure she is attracted to you - do more of a "nice guy game".
The sort of game that wouldnt lead you in to FriendZone with a confident HB9.
If she is shy that should work. And as her confidence grows, you make sure to stay in controll.

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Also, I found out I kinda have another problem. It's either that there are no opportunities to use kino, or I am not recognizing these opportunities. Like today I was thinking I should come up behind her, and give her a small poke in the side, but the opportunity was never there. Please help.


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Dude, there are always opportunities to do some kino or try something... it just sounds like you have severe AA. I wouldnt suggest poking her as your first kino attempt (unless you think it appropriate). I would start with the hand, tell her you are going to read her future or her personality or any such shit, do some cold reading... and grab her hand while you do it.


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Kino is easy to build I think the only reason we have a hard time with it is because guys are afraid of doing something inappropriate...which is pretty stupid. Think about someone who really talks with their body and hands. When they touch you, you don't feel strange because you know it's just a natural movement. Just try to be more expressive with your hands. When you're talking to her and get to something really exciting touch her on the shoulder or something to emphasise etc. It all comes pretty natural after a little while and the more you kino the more kino you receive from regular people. Just relax and don't make a big deal about touching her.
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THE CUBE.

I done the cube today at a shy girls which was giving me some weak IOIs.
She was amazed about how much I know about her and increased the number of IOIs,even started some kino.And think about it,she is shy and you show her that you know it,that you know all about her.


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