Hi guys,

I need advice. I am a first year university student in Prague. I am approuching quite a lot, in average 5 AP a day, but still no great success. I am in a new city (Prague) two and half month already.

Girls are often telling me "I have got a boyfriend." (in Czech "Mám přítele.") and start produce negative body language (eg. start to walk away). BTW they really do have a bf, most people on universities, even in their first year, are already in a relationship.

I am mostly streeter, but I also have done some clubs. But I don't like clubs, because I want LTR and not many girls that goes to music clubs here are interested in LTRs.

I have done exactly 131 AP in past 2.5 months.

I have read MM books, I have seen MM videos and also some Badboy stuff.

Any suggestions? I just don't know what I do wrong.

So can you give us an example of a typical approach of you ? If you don't tell us what you do, how can we know what you do wrong ?

If they are giving you this ANSWER often, it means that you are often ASKING them this question one way or another. (You are asking for a relationship)

You JUST met these ladies. Relax, have fun . . . avoid running down through a list of scripted material (especially during the day). And if this is a University campus, you really, really don't need to push too hard. The idea is to be an incredibly fun person. In fact, you can just let them go after a short conversation, "See ya!" The very next time you see this person again, she's no longer a stranger. You weren't pushy so you're not a threat. Then you can go, "Hey, have you ever been to ______? I went last weekend and it was so much fun . . ."

Take it easy . . .

OK. In clubs I usually play MM.

(I say it in Czech, but I can do an English version here)

(approuching by walking, not facing the set on the beginning, AP over the shoulder)

me: Hi. I need a female opinion on something.
3set: OK.
me: But I can only stay I second, I have my friends over there.
3set: (silence)
me: Is kissing cheating? I have a friend, he has a girlfriend, they are together like one year or so, and he was kissing with a different girl. Is that cheating?
3set: (they say something, whatever)

here I choose the target, start talking to the obstacles, ignoring the target..

later I neg the target, saying my DHVs and start qualifying her and see if she complies..

Later I go for NC, usually when I feel that some attraction from her.

Well, they usually tell me the "I have got a boyfriend." stuff, during streetgame, when I use direct approach. Then very often, after the direct opener, they say this line. Some HBs use a different way: they not mention their bf in first like 3-5 minutes, because they are so curious about me. Here, in middle Europe, women aren't used to somebody approuch them on the street/ in the mall. But after those 3-5 minutes, they mention they bf anyway.

If you're getting the boyfriend line from a DIRECT day approach, then maybe you should try going INDIRECT so you have a better chance of staying in-set for more than 5 minutes.