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| ThomasX | PostPosted: Thu Nov 26, 2009 9:48 pm | |
| Offline | | Member of MPUA Forum |  | Joined: Sat Oct 17, 2009 7:48 pm Posts: 101 | | I've basically been "with" a girl for a few weeks now. We talk on the phone like 3-4 times a day but usually no longer than 15-30 min each.
I love talking to her and am really falling for her. But how much is too much? What is the healthy amount of communication a day?
We can't currently see eachother because she's been in new zealand for a little while now due to some family issues over there. So all we can do is talk on the phone. She doesn't have texting either.
How much is too much? I never know if I'm suffocating someone _________________ Recovering AFC as of 4 months ago
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| Bormad | PostPosted: Thu Nov 26, 2009 11:47 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Addict |  | Joined: Sun Nov 08, 2009 11:35 pm Posts: 227 Location: Glasgow, Scotland | | You can always test by letting her initiating the phone calls if you feel like you are the one who is always starting the conversation.
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| SmoothRider | PostPosted: Fri Nov 27, 2009 1:59 pm | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Wed Nov 11, 2009 12:12 pm Posts: 19 | | Way to go Thomas!
Seriously, it's not a bad thing to talk on the phone, one of the things women look for in a man, and trust me, they have a hard time finding it, is a man who can actually have a real conversation with them.
So the fact that you talk on the phone a lot is a good sign. Now I don't know everything about this situation but if she is coming back from NZ, and you do want to see her when she does. I say keep in touch with her as well as you can.
Note: Just keep in mind that if YOU think you are overdoing it, you probably are.
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| Ryan Black SashaPUA | PostPosted: Sat Nov 28, 2009 6:28 pm | |
| Offline | | Moderator Emeritus |  | Joined: Thu Nov 01, 2007 2:35 pm Posts: 2091 Website: http://www.sashapua.com Location: London | | Just make sure you call her LESS often than she calls you. Also don't return calls immediately, wait a bit. No need to be a total dick about it, but keeping her wondering, working for your attention, and thinking you're busy are all good things.
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