Hej guys!

I just been to a rough period. I lost my dad after 6 weeks of coma.. (may 15 2009)

before that I was really into gaming and stuff.. reading books, going out to test my skills and practice, watch VH1 pick up artist all over again.

But since I lost my dad im having trouble to be fun to hang out with(sounds kinda despirated but I think you know what I mean.. just having trouble to be cool and funny, but instead I freeze after a while, I really feel like im at the beginning again and I dont dare that much anymore...

So here is the question,

A friend of mine moved in my house cause he's going to another school, I went to his party ones and I saw this cute german/american girl. <--in my friends class. We started talking and where having fun, but than I kinda froze cause I didnt know what to do next(was after 10-20min after). So we talked for a while the time we went to a club, but I couldt focus her on me. So I wasnt having fun at all, and you could see it on me. She just raised her hand when she left, and I saw that she was into me the moment I came to that party. So Im kinda lost it.

I really think the problem is the lose of my dad, its been a half year ago but I want to pick up gaming again. Its not that I think about him during ''gaming'' but just that i think im different than I was before.

At last, I was kinda good in gaming before.. was having fun and could game alot of girls ( begin 2009 orso). had succes and fun all the time, I was cockyfunny and had there interrested in me.

anyhoozer, since I really like this girl.. and see her as a potential girlfriend, I need help to pick up gaming again..

Do I just have to go out and game everyone arroud me just to pick it up again, or just explain her the situation?(not really into direct gaming tho.)

Would really like some comments..

Greetings and kiss by a rose.
Michaël

(ps. sorry for my english, im from holland and fuck my dyslectia..or how eddie izzard said it: I have BONK!)

Well without sounding too philosophical and motherly, when you're ready you will be able to game again.

You obviously still need to recover from the loss of your father and that naturally takes time.

Trust me, when you get your game back you will feel like a million bucks, or Euros in your case.