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| AskAndrew | PostPosted: Wed Nov 25, 2009 11:47 pm | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Wed Nov 25, 2009 11:33 pm Posts: 2 AOL: RememberBomb | | Hey everyone! I'm Andrew, im 23 and currently located near manchester, nh. I've always been interested in "the game" but never really got into doing anything about it. Until lately after going to countless bars and just watching women and being "that guy". Scared to do anything. So i started reading the game (which is a great read so far) and im sick of being an AFC.
I feel that im a good looking guy its just i, like every other afc suffer from approach anxiety and don't know what to say. So im looking for guidance into my journey and i feel this community can help me out.
So if anyone has any words of wisdom to begin me on my journey i would love to hear them. I hope to soak in as much wisdom and information as i can.
-Andrew
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| Sharplin | PostPosted: Thu Nov 26, 2009 3:26 am | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Zealot |  | Joined: Sat Sep 26, 2009 4:32 am Posts: 409 Location: Canada | | Study up, but don't give your life to game. You will regret it if you do.
Life is yours. Take what you want from it, no matter how big or small.
Everybody suffers from approach anxiety - you do, I do, Style does, GIRLS do. That HB9 you are afraid to talk to is probably afraid to talk to you too.
It isn't an easy road. Don't expect to get something from nothing - you won't be successful without a little pain and a lot of hard work. In the moment, you will be afraid to approach, but clench your teeth and focus your mind until you work up the courage to walk up to her, then you have stuck yourself into a set and you are forcing yourself to open. Try this a few times till you are more comfortable doing it. Trust me, it goes a lot better than you might think (I'm new to this too, tried this and it works.)
All in all, you've made a good choice. Welcome to the community, Andrew, I'm Sharplin.
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