Hi everyone,

This is my first post and I hope it is in the right place.

So basically I have been watching videos from Style and Gambler and been reading some material from David Deangelo. I am overwelmed with the information available and I wanted to get your recommendation on what I should go with so I can stick with it and take it to the next level. In essence, I am mostly interested in long-term partners and building a "better" circle of friends. So I suppose my requirements are:

Inner game
Day game - would love to get this down to a fine art as I am meeting new people every day.
Date game - I do online dating and get quite a few dates, but I would like to increase my success, despite it going well
NLP/Body language/conversation game - I am really interested in influencing new people and building a connection - I think that this would come in handy in my job.
Bar/Clubs game even though this is not my scene, I'd like to pick it up just in case.

My confidence is above average (I am sure there is certainly more for improvement) but it's just the game part I am missing. If there is anything you can recommend or a structure, that would be much appreciated.

Advice and comments all welcome.

Thanks in advance!

Oh, I just recently purchased a few books (Introduction to NLP, Influence and how to win, Rules of the Game, Art of Seduction). Where to start?!

I would suggest doing the Rules of the Game 30 day challenge first. There's no complicated model to learn. It's straightforward stuff that will get you out in the field actually practicing, which is the most important thing.

As you're progressing, you'll notice certain sticking points. Then it's good to dip into some material and focus on that area, then go out in field and practice. Rinse and repeat for every chink in your armour.

DON'T feel you need to sit down and read EVERY eBook on PU before you can do your first approach. The only reason any book will make sense and work for you is if you've actually been in that situation and you were unsure or got blown out, and then the book will explain a method for getting around that, which you need to hone and adapt to your style of gaming. No book will give you inner core confidence, smooth transitioning, dominant body language and voice tonality, etc. You have to go out and just DO those things until they are part of who you are. Good luck and enjoy the journey!

One quick note. Art of Seduction is a very nice read, but loosely related to PU. It's more of an historical backgroud and patterns used by famous seductors. He also explains the steps of seduction.

It's all very well written and interesting to read, but little of it is actually something to add to your game.

For day game, just take it slowly. The first thing that I did for that was to use the cologne opener in malls. Worked great to help me out (and I was actually looking for a new cologne...)

Cheer!

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Hi guys,

Thanks for your replies, much appreciated.

OK, so you recommend doing the 30 day challenge. Will start it. What does this cover exactly and will it be enough?

I was thinking of going to the free London event found at pua training, is it recommended?

Recommendated direction will be great, especiallly as I want to start praticing asap, rather than spending weeks watch material and I know there is a lot out there (vault collection, annihilation method, mystery method, style life, arghh).

I would recommend reading the game and doing the 30 day challenge. The game gives a good amount of background to the progress someone can make. Another handy tip is to simply pick a few openers and try out a few sets as you dont have to stay the full time. It is a steep learning curve but don't get too bogged down with material just go out and try one or two new things.

Also, go onto gunwitch's website to read (and apply) his methods (you can skip the fourth as it is deeper inner game stuff you probably won't be able to develop yet.) This will allow you to get laid easily, and such keeping the sex part out of the part of building game first. (Gunwitch method is more about easy sex then actually dominating the female psyche and bulding your social group.)