I've got some DavidD stuff I'm going through and I'm willing to share and learn.

Abundance is one of those key words I forgot. If you can get one HB you can get another.

Quick tip: My son and I were playing tag on the way into the grocery store. In the store works a nice looking cashier so I decide to include her. I walk up to her and say "Tag, you're it!" and my son and I run away laughing.

Next day I'm there with the kids checking out and I say to her "Are you still it?" and she says "yeah" then comes and tags my daughter who tags me. I say "Oh man, I'm it now" and she says "Yeah, that's why I'm staying over here."

Funny stuff. Now she'll remember that.

So, why did this work?

1. I broke a social convention. I touched someone I didn't know. That stands out.
2. It was a game, it was funny.
3. She's at work and this totally broke up her boring day
4. Reinforcement. We replayed the original game
5. She played along and had fun with it

For all I know she's married with eleventy kids but I didn't care. I was just having fun and spreading it around. Do that enough and it gets in your pheromones and people can just smell how fun you are. Everyone treats me differently since I started doing this stuff.

Hey Southern Utah, Northern Utah over here! I really like how you said attitude gets in your pheromones and everyone can tell what kind of mood you're in just by being close to you. That's a really important point for people to remember because in order to properly present yourself you have to realize that presentation is not only how you look and talk but also how your attitude and other senses come across. Very good point DG.