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PostPosted: Sun Nov 22, 2009 4:51 am 
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Okay question what do i do if the girl calls me weird or mean to me lol (Not trying to be a pussy here lol im not) she just verbally insults me. She has major mood swings like one day she'll be all over me and the next calls me a perv lol. Any thoughts?


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PostPosted: Sun Nov 22, 2009 5:18 am 
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Your information is very limited, regardless from what you have posted I can hypothesize situation. I'm guessing your in highschool or possibly just starting college from your attitude towards girls being "weird" too you. Most importantly and first off you should not minister to her reactions towards you. I don't know how much game your running with her, but you should always make her validate herself to you. As soon as you put yourself in the mindset of figuring out what her feelings towards you are... you lose. My immediate advice: When you find her all over you keep the same attitude that brough her to that level when she is acting "weird" towards you. Always be above the girl and keep her guessing... remember she is validating herself to you, not vice versa.


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PostPosted: Sun Nov 22, 2009 5:31 am 
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Your information is very limited, regardless from what you have posted I can hypothesize situation. I'm guessing your in highschool or possibly just starting college from your attitude towards girls being "weird" too you. Most importantly and first off you should not minister to her reactions towards you. I don't know how much game your running with her, but you should always make her validate herself to you. As soon as you put yourself in the mindset of figuring out what her feelings towards you are... you lose. My immediate advice: When you find her all over you keep the same attitude that brough her to that level when she is acting "weird" towards you. Always be above the girl and keep her guessing... remember she is validating herself to you, not vice versa.
You are correct I am in high school. Also Can you help me understand what I should do instead of trying to figure out how she feels about me. Cause I sometimes find myself asking her if she likes me. Weak I know I'm a newbie to gaming.


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You ask her if she likes you? That's a big no-no. For me to help you at all I really need more infortmation. What kind of rapport have you developed with this girl? How long have you been talking/gaming her? Do you have her number and contact her outside of school? Have you suggested hanging out or met on any occasions outside of classes? It's a very diffrent game when it comes to highschool chicks... often reputation highly exceeds anything else depending on the type of chick your after. Is she popular preppy, or an outside group beyond the clicks... more info.


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You ask her if she likes you? That's a big no-no. For me to help you at all I really need more infortmation. What kind of rapport have you developed with this girl? How long have you been talking/gaming her? Do you have her number and contact her outside of school? Have you suggested hanging out or met on any occasions outside of classes? It's a very diffrent game when it comes to highschool chicks... often reputation highly exceeds anything else depending on the type of chick your after. Is she popular preppy, or an outside group beyond the clicks... more info.
Okay she lives like 10 minutes form my house and i work during the summers right by her house. Ive been to her house 2-3 times. She used to go to my school but not no more cause i go to a different school now she. I still live near her. We accualy went out for 2 weeks lol. But thats a long time ago. she used to call me like every single day. until a week ago she stoped calling. got her self a myspace Wrote "hi" to me i replied "hey whats up" and she replied "oh my dog youre so annoying". Not sure how im anoyinng if shes calling me every single day. Also very important detail she "will never be able to come out or go anywhere with a guy if her parents are home. usualy when we hung out her parents werent home. She also wont call if her parents are home. Made out with her a few times. But now I saw her at a wedding. There i negged her a bit. She blushed a bit then everytime i left she kept telling me she loves me obiosly not cause. Next she says she hates me (whats that some sort of test?)

Yeah thats everything up until today.
UPDATE: Just called me today i took advice from guys in chat and it went okay on the phone. Still need your help bro.


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In my experiances it's better that you don't go to the same school. My most successful relationships were outside of my highschool, and those who were in classes with me usually ended in your usual "drama". If she was calling you every single day and you've only been to her house a couple times that sounds like a problem. You need to be more proactive if you don't want to get stuck in the dreaded "friend zone". Why is it she is not allowed to hang out with guys? Is this something she told you?, or do you have evidence or believe it to be true. She is obviously shit testing you when she says "your so annoying" and "she loves you or she hates you" these type of things should react to in a playful manner. You have enough rapport to do that and should emphasize that you don't care, but don't be rude. Cocky Funny is what your aiming for. It's good to come up with your own material that relates to inside jokes with yourselves, but most importantly always show you have higher value. How did the phone convo go?


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In my experiances it's better that you don't go to the same school. My most successful relationships were outside of my highschool, and those who were in classes with me usually ended in your usual "drama". If she was calling you every single day and you've only been to her house a couple times that sounds like a problem. You need to be more proactive if you don't want to get stuck in the dreaded "friend zone". Why is it she is not allowed to hang out with guys? Is this something she told you?, or do you have evidence or believe it to be true. She is obviously shit testing you when she says "your so annoying" and "she loves you or she hates you" these type of things should react to in a playful manner. You have enough rapport to do that and should emphasize that you don't care, but don't be rude. Cocky Funny is what your aiming for. It's good to come up with your own material that relates to inside jokes with yourselves, but most importantly always show you have higher value. How did the phone convo go?
This the first time she called in weeks and she only calls when her parents arent home. Yes I guess her parents have never been home when we went out somewhere and When they were even outside she wouldnt even hug me or anything lol she is hella quiet by her parents.

The phone conversation went pretty well accauly made her laugh a few times. I took advice from the guys in the chat room they said to just say anything random. I honestly didn't even know what i was talking about but she seemed to take it well. She kept on telling me she "loves me" I didn't know if it was a test or something so I just ignored it.

About DHV how do i go on showing Higher value?


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