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PostPosted: Sat Nov 21, 2009 12:09 pm 
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Occassionaly i will open and just have women answer my questions with single word answers. This is something I don't know how to deal with. I try cold reads, qualification and other things but no luck. Any advice?


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how soon are you asking questions? .... when you ask questions ake them ones that dont have 1 word answers ... so nothing that can be answerd yes no maybe... try out some opinion openers .... eg

hey(pause for them to look) can i ask you guys for an opinion on something?

hot girls: sure/yes (in this instance its ok to have one word answers)

do i look gay in these cloths? because i just got chatted up by a guy. this kinda thing is funny and makes girls laugh.


remember keep talking at first and keep it interesting. when she hooks you will find she answers more fully

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PostPosted: Sat Nov 21, 2009 2:32 pm 
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Opinion openers aren't really for me, thanks though.

As an experienced pua can i ask if anyone else has any advice?


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Opinion openers aren't really for me, thanks though.

As an experienced pua can i ask if anyone else has any advice?
Do you reject out of hand the first answer a girl gives you to your first question too? That could be annoying them...

His point is still valid even if you don't want to use opinion questions. If you ask something that can be answered with one word, it probably will be.


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Nope i don't do that. What i mean is they will give the shortest answer possible without any conversational threads. Anyone else?[/quote]


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Make sure to do your opener casually with body language turned away, over the shoulder if you're going indirect. Make sure to smile and be generally friendly and positive. Try not to ask things that could ever be answered with a yes/no. Make statements - rather than saying "so where are you guys from?" say "you guys sound Swedish." Even if you're wrong they'll still probably be wondering why you chose that country, you can even lead straight into how u met some Swedish girls the other day and they sound/look like them, or something. Also try and have a DHV story or something funny and light hearted to transition straight into if you feel like your opener is going nowhere. Be animated - especially with night game it's best to be at or above the energy level of the set, because you want to be the fun guy who's giving them a fun time, not bringing them down.


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Well, if you need help on this I would advise you to post one of your typical conversations. How can we help you if you don't tell us what you normally say when you approach a woman ?


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