Ok, I wrote in a few weeks ago about this HB9 that Im at uni with. We live together. Anyway, for some reason, we've been getting with eachother for weeks now. She has a boyfriend and at one stage broke things off with me because it was harsh on her him. He's an absolute moron so I dont feel bad. However, things started up again and last night we both got horribly drunk and slept together. I was probably awful, and am kinda embarressed.

Anyway I was gonna try and break the inevitable awkwardness by talking to her today. So I'm in the kitchen and she walks in, only she's with one of her boy mates who's come to visit and he's also mates with her boyfriend so I cant go and talk to her. I asked her if she was ok and she kinda gave me an embaressed laugh and said she was fine. But it was like a eurgh I'm never getting with you again laugh, like she doesnt give a shit anymore.

Is this the end? What do I do? Help!

Don’t judge so fast, she is probably as confused as you are. Give her some time, and even more importantly give yourself some time. I didn’t get a lot of background information about your story with this girl but it looks like you are looking for more than just a ONS. If that is the case, if I were you I would just talk to her and try to clear things out. At some stage people need to start talking. Often, being direct and honest helps a lot. Don’t turn it into a big drama, just keep your positive frame, be yourself and talk to her. She is just a human being, just like you she has emotions and the rest of the world affects her one way or another. A big part of her decisions are very deeply already affected by you and your own decisions. People interfere with each other’s inner worlds, consciously or subconsciously. Just go there and make her part of your world (if you want that of course);)

Cheers
Jez

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Cheers mate, made a lot of sense. I just got the impression that I was some loser she never should have slept with and it wasn't fun to feel like that. I will talk to her, its just that shes with her boyfriends best mate right now. Talk about bad timing!!

Thanks again fella. I'll write back on here with an update soon, if anyone cares