a few people i know have mentioned doing this, but i think it sounds kinda lame?

if u dont know what i mean im referring to sending the target a text (i assume in a period were ur not already talking) which is made to look like its for someone else, to generate their interest and bring them to u.

anyone else done this? personally any time a girl has sent me a txt that was supposed to be for someone else, iv always assumed she was up to something

can this be useful tho?

It's really just a way to open up some dialogue. I don't use it, and it's not really necessary, IMO. It's a good way to open without feeling like you could get rejected, but I would rather be more direct when texting a girl. Plus, have you ever gotten a text accidentally? I never have.

It really is a round about way to get into a conversation. Personally I don't like it. Chances are if the girl was interested in texting back and forth with you, you would already be doing so. If you're looking to start a conversation, just be direct with something interesting and attention grabbing.

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This is exactly wat i was thinking.

but whatever works for these guys i spose.

when i think about it i guess they do it to convey higher value, depending on who theyr makin it look like theyr supposed to be textin.

still, bit too lame/risky to me.

I never tried but I already thought to do it. Like you said, I feel that she will just not answer. And also, who the fuck text someone by accident?

Anyhow, I saw on the sms openers thread an opener that I want to try. Send a blank message. In my mind this one can work, someone tried it?

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I received a blank message from my ex boyfriend after we had broken up and weren't talking anymore. Because there were still some slight feelings there, I responded with "um thanks for the blank message" which actually then caused him to be like "oh sorry. I wasn't thinking properly. How are you anyway?" and we started talking again for a bit....

I have a friend who's ex girlfriend "accidentally" texted him (she still wanted him but he didn't want her anymore) saying "Fuck Sarah, can you call me-I just went to the doctors and he reckons I might be pregnant" the last person she had slept with was the ex-boyfriend and he knew it. He wrote back to her saying "wtf what's going on?" and kept trying to call her but she wouldn't answer. He wanted to know what happened and she finally told him two days later that hurray she wasn't pregnant. It gave her the chance to say to him "why are you so worried? How do you know it would even be yours?" When she told him, he was so relieved and after that stopped talking to her. So she did get a response but it wan't sustainable. This made her look soi depserate. Eventually he worked out that it was all a ploy to get him back eventually and told his new girlfriend who made that poor girl's life hell. but she did deserve it. It was a pretty low thing to do.

A blank message?

No. please for the love of god don't send someone a blank message.

I have received blank messages before and it's creepy. I automaticly thought that person just wanted my attention.

And sending a text to the wrong person? Probably not the best option. If it has come to this then you havent run good interactions for you to be thinking like this. Go back, run some better interactions, THEN focus on what your going to say during sms and phone game.

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