Sorry mate, speaking as a complete newb here, I have to be honest. All you've really done is say 'Be more confident!'. Which isn't advice.
This is the problem I have a bit of with a lot of the 'Its all Inner GAME!!!!' I read around. Yeah, I get the reaction against some PUAs almost inhumanising structure, but, well. Its a bit like a driving instructor's lesson consisting of 'You need to DRIVE this CAR on the ROAD'. You'd be like 'yeah? How?'
"YOU need to be NAVIGATING the CAR move amongst THE OTHER VEHICLES!!!"
And so on. You need to learn how the clutch works, how to change gears, what break times are like, the rules of the world and so on. And the only way you learn is to be taught, go do, fuck up, learn, retry until you can do it with your eye's closed.
Natural confidence comes from doing something and getting good at it. If you don't know how to do something, you can't possibly do it. No matter what your 'frame is'. And isn't that the point of pickup? Its for those of us who, for whatever reason, didn't learn these skills naturally in adolesence to develop them?
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-And my personal favorite, which I met my last girlfriend using-I want to make love to you behind the dumpster at taco bell, then buy you a number 8, large sized, that's how special you are
I am, however, going to steal this. Because its brilliant. Cheers.

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