Very new to this as you might imagine. My game is picking up in terms of talking to girls, getting a date and what not.

Now comes the hard part..Actually going one on one with the girl!! Haha.I know I am stressing but I am new at this so just looking for some general advice on what to do, how to stay calm and basically not give a hoot. Thanks! If you need more details I will provide.

Don't spend the next two days thinking about what to do, worrying, planning, etc. Forget about it until you're there, go and have some fun. Be in the moment.

Order some water with your coffee. Spill it on her. Water is good for the skin. Good for clothing. You can spill it all over her and she will be fine when it dries. It will break the ice. Your mind won't be focused on trying to impress the broad.

Remember....Think outside of the box.

Have some ideas in mind of places to go near the coffee house. A sit down coffee on its own can easily turn into a kino-less interview. If you can pull it off, grab the coffee and be like, "oh hey there's a great farmers market / clothing shop / etc/ around here, let's check it out!" Being the spontaneous fun guy is always a plus, and walking around and doing something like that gives you far more opportunity to kino escalate than sitting across from each other at a table.

Also try and arrange things so that you end up near one of your two houses, so that if you do escalate successfully you have the opportunity of going back to "check out that album I was telling you about."