I used to work (up until 2 days ago) in a mall selling hair streightners and curlers (perfect job for pick up) anyway, there was this girl, Kristi HB 9, I curled hair hair and we talked, perfect game from my point, perfect comfort, she told me about a piercing she has in her clit, she said im very beautiful and during the conversation about "everybody has a talent" kind of thing she said thst my talent is to make ppl smile (actualy the nices thing a girl ever told me)

in the end she hugged me and i said " wow, we should really continu this conversation" and she gave me her number

I called her a couple of days later, she didnt answer, but then send sent an sms "who is it?"
i respond "ill bet u a drink u wouldnt guess"
10 min passed and i send another one saying "times up its david"

no respond..

the next day (wich is today) something came up and i have to return to israel
so i sent her another sms "hey, its the guy that curled ur hair, i have to leave tommorow but i want to see you before that"

she responded with a cold sms saying she cant coz she needed to see her bf (the one she didnt even mensioned during the pick up)

now, i know i wouldnt get her but it still drives me crazy how can a perfect pick up (seriously!!) can turn into such a blur

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lol was it the perfect pick-up or did you just think it was the perfect pick-up?

automatically, i'd say its the percentage rule: you can't win 'em all. a man's game is measured by the percentage of girls he can retain. so if outta 10 girls u can follow thru with 5, that's 50%, which is pretty good.

but for this situation, hmmm. i'd say you waited too long. a couple of days is all she needs to go from really into you to "hm, i lost interest".

its all good, not like you wanna marry her. after all, y'all met at a mall

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She's flakey, like most women. Not necessarily anything you did wrong.

I know it's easy for me to say but "shrug it off" . Remember how well you did during your interadtions with her and the positive responses you got. This is what you need to continue doing.

I have a job that requires continuous travel and I can tell you first hand that most women have NO concept of the fact that they might never see you again. So don't sweat that.

Time constraints vs. attraction AND physical distance vs attraction is a concept foreign to chicks. They don't comprehend that they may never see you again no matter how much attraction they felt towards you.