I had a day 2 with a girl last friday. I was in doubt wether I should phone or text her. I finally called her up but she didn't pick up the phone. She doesn't call or text me back, what can I still do to get in contact with her, without losing value or acting desperate?

When you call or text her have a plan. Don't just call to talk. Then leave a message with the status of your plan. If she doesn't reply or talk back you have to move on. I'm sorry.

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I didn't leave a message. But of course she have noticed my call. So let's hope she will reply...

yeah dude, don't even sweat it. use the rule of 2: she only has 2 chances for everything. only txt/call her twice, max. if she doesn't reply, move on.

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Thanks Captrow. Not that was feeling bad about it, I wanted to know if you can try it a second time. I will send a text or message and if she's still not replying than it's clear and I will finish it.

hey man,

I've had the same problem. I've met this girl at the gym about 3 to 4 weeks ago, got her number, txted her a few times. I just kept giving it breaks. Like if I txted her on saturday, I would then txt her the following saturday. Unfortunately for me, she's not interested. I did send her 2 messages(one on wednesday nite, and one on saturday) but never got a reply. Saw her at the gym yesterday, and she did apologies for not texting back. But you know, its either she falls in or out. For me, she fell out. So I am not bothered, just moving on...loads of girls around mate. Am sure you'll get plenty who will actually reply to you. Just be confident, fun and enthusiastic!!