I apologize for the n00b question, but just wanted to get some advice on actually how to ask for the date in a confident, non AFC manner.

Got a message on facebook back from a girl I saw out last saturday (used online game from the online sarging forums about being married before and what not:WORKS GREAT) and she said this:


Dear ex-hubby,

It's unfortunate that I do not share these imaginary memories with you. I am curious as to why you have already divorced me in your mind? What did I do to deserve that?

Also, while I appreciate the house in Hawaii, I do not totally agree with the rest of this agreement. Perhaps we should discuss this over coffee... or perhaps green tea?


Obviously she wants to get together, but I seem to always flub up making plans and seeming in control and confident. Don't want to go that route again so I am hoping my brothers can help me out here! Thanks.

Wow! This situation is easy buddy. She's already giving you a hint to take her out. Go on in this funny role playing game and set up a meeting.
Based on her message I would write:

'Unfortunately I don't have the time right now to explain why you deserve this, but I will. Let's meet up for a coffee on (day) and I will explain it to you and if were lucky we might get an agreement about the house in hawaii.
there's a bar called (name), it's a nice place (bla, bla, bla,) So i'll see you there around (time) all right?'

Good luck