Very new to this site and trying to read as much as I can. Had a strange situation a few weeks ago. I was visiting some friends who have a daughter about 18yrs old, I have known her since she was 5 and get on very well with her, but in an adult to child kinda way. She is all grown up now and I hadn't seen her in a few months. Over the course of the weekend she was sitting on my knee, playfighting with me pretty regularly and pushing her tits into me when playfighting and sitting close to me.

We have been out in the past as a group and she usually ends up spending the evening with me just talking for hours about everything and anything. She seems to find me very easy to talk to and there is usually alot of banter going on although never sexual.

The problem is I am nearly twice her age and it is a very complicated situation. I suspect she is playing with me and testing out her new found sexyness on me. What do you guys think? I have no intention of trying anything with her but curious to see what you experts make of this.

dont do it. you dont want to ruin your friendship for a cute girl, because theres billions of cute girls and very few good friends. simple.

i know a lot of girls like that, playful and funand sexy and far too often seeming to want a shag, but the truth is 90% of the time they dont realise they are flirting or whatever, its just their personality. happens too often. anyway, not worth it, most likely you would sleep with her, your friends would hate you, then she'd dump youor you'd get sick of how immature she is,and then everythings fucked really.

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Thats my first impression too. Don't do it because there are only 4 outcomes:

1) She gets weirded out
2) You hookup once and things get weird
3) You date, breakup, don't have the same relationship as before
4) You get married (unlikely)


You're an older guy and you probably have a lot of influence on her. Girls are attracted to this and she's probably attracted to you.