This keeps happening does not seem to happen much when I chat to girls off line but I met a girl on a dating website and chatted to her on MSN but when she IODed me and IODed her back then she kept IODing me by mentioning this guy she liked I got angry and IODed even more and made her feel like crap on purpose. This is not the only girl it has happened with.

I feel I am being cocky and funny and qualifying everything I should be plus I am a decent looking guy with pictures of good looking girls and she is only a 6 so why does this keep happening.

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Donna says:
hello
Falcony says:
u have a fun weekend?
Donna says:
yeap went to my cousin's 18th party last night, danced the night away lol, u?
Falcony says:
not so great this weekend unfortunately
glad you had fun though
Donna says:
aww why you not had such a great one?
Falcony says:
the storm caused quite a bit of damage to my family's farm
luckily i was there to help and we managed to save a lot of the out buildings
it was a shame because so much work had been put into it
Donna says:
aww that's not good
Falcony says:
we did manage to save most of the things though
Donna says:
that's a good thing
Falcony says:
exactly
you been on that fish website recently?
Donna says:
yeap, u?
Falcony says:
no been too busy
any good?
Donna says:
it's ok if you are really desprite lol
Falcony says:
why is that lol
Donna says:
cos you've got a lot of choice
Falcony says:
yeah i know i would say some of the girls are more enthusiastic than desperate
Donna says:
yeah that's the girls, i'm talking about the guys lol
Falcony says:
i said some of them not all of them some of the girls are desparate too don't be so sexist Donna lol
Donna says:
me sexist never lol
Falcony says:
being desperate is bad right lol why do you think that is?
Donna says:
yeah it's bad, why do i think what is?
Falcony says:
you are crazy lol what do you think
Donna says:
i no i'm crazy i don't need you to tell me lol
Falcony says:
I think its bad because if you end up going out with them it means they picked you because they couldnt get anyone else
Donna says:
exactly
Falcony says:
bet u didnt think that and had a different reason lol
Donna says:
i did think that actually
so are you checking your mail on fish website?
Falcony says:
i would also say because they seem like failures if they are a failure in their love life then what else are they failing at
Donna says:
ok, you think too much lol
Falcony says:
so do you crazy girl how can you tell if someone is desperate? lol
Donna says:
cos they keep emailing you even when you don't reply lol
Falcony says:
why wouldnt you reply to them in the first place lol
Donna says:
cos i'm picky lol
Falcony says:
arent we all lol and i thought you were such a nice girl
Donna says:
i am
Falcony says:
are you sure? what do you like to see on someone's profile what interests you about a guy?
Donna says:
i don't no it depends what mood i'm in
Falcony says:
so one minute you might really like a guy then the next you might hate his guts lol
Donna says:
hate is a strong word
it depends what he's into
Falcony says:
if he is the going out or stay at home type lol
you are more the stay at home type so you want the same
Donna says:
yeah
Falcony says:
but sometimes you feel a more outgoing guy would be more exciting
Donna says:
yeah and i don't always want to be stuck at home doing nothing
Falcony says:
the stay at home guy would be more boyfriend material and the outgoing guy more lover material
Donna says:
thanks for the tip
lol
Falcony says:
you are one of those girls who says they want such a nice guy but end up going off with the bad boy who sweeps them off their feet
Donna says:
am i now?
Falcony says:
you normally agree with everything i say lol
Donna says:
yeah i no it's weird lol
Falcony says:
you are just sooo into me lol
shame i am seeing someone now eh
i still think the fish website can be fun sometimes
Donna says:
aww i'm sooo gutted lol
Falcony says:
aww so am i lol think i am going to cry i so want to be with you
Donna says:
lol
as you seem to have figured me out so well can i ask you for some advise?
Falcony says:
i warn you that i do charge 100 pounds an hour lol
and if i give advice what do i get out of it
oh yeah money lol
Donna says:
well i'll have to make sure that i don't go over an hour lol
Falcony says:
you can afford 100 pounds then rich girl then are you? lol
Donna says:
not say ing lol
Falcony says:
i was always looking for a rich girl to support me lol
Donna says:
it's a shame that i'm looking for a rich guy then isn't lol
Falcony says:
hey we can both be rich and support each other lol
you are open minded right?
Donna says:
yes
Falcony says:
what do you think of open relationships?
Donna says:
haha
not for me
Falcony says:
i thought you said you were open minded
what are you looking for marriage lol
Donna says:
maybe lol
Falcony says:
we can have a wedding online and then get a divorce after you find out i have a few mistresses on the side
you get to keep the children and I get the house so I can throw more parties lol
Donna says:
i'm sorry to say i've got my eye on someone else
Falcony says:
uh it was a joke
Donna says:
though if i had the children i would have to have the house as well to bring them up in
Falcony says:
and im seeing someone lol and have my eye on a few other girls
so top that
Donna says:
i'm not greedy
one's enough for me
Falcony says:
thats just an excuse because you cant match me lol
Donna says:
i don't want to top you
anyway you going to give some advise or not? lol
Falcony says:
i was just playing with you am not interested
i like dark skinned girls
Donna says:
i no you are playing
Falcony says:
Italian and Turkish girls are so gorgeous
not so keen on English unless I am drunk lol
Donna says:
why is that then?
Falcony says:
just not attracted to them unless they have a more meditterannean and darker complexion
its not just that as well I like the foreign accents and culture too guess its an exotic thing
Donna says:
fair enough
Falcony says:
some english girls like foreign guys for the same reason which means more foreign girls for me
Donna says:
lol
i think i'm just going to give up on them all
Falcony says:
thought you said you had your eye on someone but they don't like you back otherwise you would not still be on fish lol
Donna says:
i thought that they liked me back, met them on plenty of fish been talking since june but last week he went quiet and we haven't talked for a week
we normally talk every night, he did text to say that he was busy, don't no if i believe him or not
Falcony says:
same thing happened with a girl now i asked her to be more honest she doesn't dis me like that any more
if you have been talking for months i think you should meet someone in person to see what they are really like otherwise they could just be some old fogey for all you know
Donna says:
i did ask him if he still wanted to talk and he said yes but had been busy, but i've still not heard from him.
when i say about meeting up he says one day
Falcony says:
sounds like he isnt what he seems
if he looks quite good looking in his profile he could be an older fatter guy in real life
same thing happened to me when i met this girl off fish who was supposed to be attractive but wasnt in real life
she actually used fake pics
Donna says:
but i really like him, if it is the case i will be giving up with it all!
Falcony says:
why is it specifically you like him?
i would not make that much of an investment to someone i had not met and couldnt reciprocate
Donna says:
he's funny, and lovely and we can talk about anything and everything
Falcony says:
so can we so what's the difference
not that i want you to like me i just want to understand why
Donna says:
i don't no what it is about him
now you have made me worry
Falcony says:
you make me worry all the time you are crazy
Donna says:
yeah i no i am lol
Falcony says:
get a tan and a boob job then he wont ignore you lol
it will make you look more attractive
Donna says:
why do you say i need a boob job? lol
Falcony says:
why not
and dye your hair black
Donna says:
i'm not going under the knife for any1, he likes my hair colour
doesn't look too good in that pic i will admit
Falcony says:
change the pic
besides the girl on the right is better looking than you
so you might want to change it if talking to him as he might like her more
Donna says:
yeah i no amanda is better looking than me she always has been
you've made feel like shit now you no
Falcony says:
girls are supposed to prefer jerks over nice guys
anyway i gotta go now i am meeting my bird for some fun time
hope it works out for you seem like a nice person you will get a boyfriend some day
Donna says:
yeah when i'm 40
Falcony says:
saying stuff like than can be off putting
try being more positive
anyway catch you later
have fun
Donna says:
bye



Felt like saying beggars can't be choosers at the end,

Anyway what do you think is going on here is there any way I can stop her from IODing so much in the future to avoid me having to IOD back?

"hello friendzone".. All I gotta say to it... really..

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Hi, I need your female opinion on this...

How can it be friend zone if I was teasing her and not acting like an AFC?

I think it started when you reacted to her sorry im seeing someone line. Also its really hard to do roleplay on the net as you cant really see body language as she changed a little at that point