So little background... I´ve known this girl for years now. Since the day I met her, we´ve been getting along really well. When I finally mustered up courage to act it was too late, she had a boyfriend. This was a year ago. So we´ve been staying friends (as she calls us when im being introduced to her friends) but in fact that´s pretty far from the truth. We see each other too seldom. Usually in parties or when she and her family comes for a visit ( our parents are good friends with each other). I´ve been at parties and clubs with her ( boyfriend along) and we touch each other a lot and hold hands, dance even when her boyfriends is next to us. At first she always took iniative dragging me to dance floor, touch my hand, sit next to me our legs touching. Sometimes i felt she was just playing with me but i didn´t care. Anyway since i joined this forum a year ago i´ve changed bit what it comes to acting around women. So started negging her, i´ve used few things i´ve learned from the forums, telling dhv-stories. She has seen around other women and me getting rly well along with few of her friends. When im with her I always seem to do well in parties (mb because other women seen me doing so well with a girl so hot she is). My phone always seems ring when im talking to her we always bump to my friends by accident. She must see me as a very social person, which I am but not to that extent. We also txt a lot and messages are at times very flirtatious. Now i can see the change in her behaviour. So few days ago I was going to meet a frinds for coffee and by accident I meet her at a bus stop. Her eyes were beaming and she stood rly close to me and I even i felt uncomfortable even though this is what I had to tried to do for ages, closing the distance between us. She was rly excitied to see me. So later that day talk to her on facebook. And she asks me if I´ve heard that she´s single again. In the same convo she asks me " what is the youngest girl i would ever date" ( im 23 , she´s eighteen). Some serious IOI I think to myself. When im out of town and talked to her on facebook again yesterday she said If i was home she would invite me for a movie at her place. So guess im asking how long i should wait after she has broken up with her bf. Rather not be only a rebound.

Woah, awesome IOI's man. It's good that your taking what your learning and applying them. Isn't it an awesome feeling?

What I would do just to seal the deal is to invite her and like 4 other girls to the club and give all of them equal attention. Since your with 4 other and her she'll see that your popular and wanted but she'll also really want to spend more time with her. But DON'T give her your full attention, maker her want you. I recommend this because it seems like you were in a HEAVY friend zone with her and have a ton of comfort and not enough attraction. Limit the texting and calling and out of nowhere ask her to come out with you.

Thanks for reply! Yeh i agree with you. It just happens that im moving in a new flat in 2 weeks and throwing a party then. It seems like the perfect chance for me to get out of the friends zone for good...