Well maybe if you did get laid she'd see you as being more like every other guy. With what you did she's going to be chasing you harder and wanting you more. Such a smart move

Update: It almost backfired. I would suggest to anyone out there not to use this approach until you already have her wound up a little and she is with you. Giving this statement days in advance did immediately trigger her "I have to be the one to break that" but the days leading up to it when I wasn't there turning her on gave her time to accept my 'rule' that I don't sleep with girls on the first date. I had to keep working it with her until she 'found' a way around it and said, "well, at midnight it won't be the first day anymore" to which I responded, "I guess technically you are right, so I wouldn't be breaking my rule but it would take a lot of convincing." So she proceeded to 'convince' me and I built sexual tension for in the bedroom for about 2 hours.

I have adopted this technique a few times and what I have found is that it can generally lead to an anti-climax(no pun intended). As Gambler states, it is important to get sex out of the way early on in a r/ship so then it does not become an issue. Sex is an extremely pivotal thing and it should be neutralised as soon as possible.

Just my opinion.

As much as I love Gambler I think I'm with my boy 870 in this one.

I had a girl dripping wet on top of me after I fingered her begging me to fuck her, but I didn't want to; she's had sex with 5 guys since starting uni.

She got me when I was drunk. She went crazy all over my cock. Oh well, shit happens. The no sex gambit works time and time again.

Very well done 870, i think your gambit is genius, i had done the same thing with my previous girlfriend, anticipation, it makes everything 10 times more fun when it does happen

kudos

Wow this is awesome! i actually remember using something very similar to this with girls when I was in high school (and yes of course it worked). I played it based on a time schedule so that we each had 5 minutes to tease each other and see who gave in first. Magic shit!

so a good rule of thumb is basically never her give her what she wants when shes expecting it. shes expecting you to give her your whole dick? go just the tip for a little while, then shes expecting a slow transition....BUT YOU POUND IT IN HER!!!!! muwahahahaha