Yo guys, I got a question. I have a friend who always seems to steal the spotlight, anything he does or says is automatically cool/funny. That's great and all, but whenever I'm in a group with him, I feel completely invisible.

Like for example, I was chilling with him and some other friends a few days ago, and I was playing guitar (I've been playing for a few years and people tell me I'm pretty good). These girls we were with sorta ignored my playing, but he picked up the guitar and just started hitting random strings (he doesn't know how to play) and all the girls started laughing and giving him IOI's.

I know it's all alpha male to not care about attention, but even if I don't care, people still won't care and I'll still be in the same position (i.e. invisible).

Do you guys have any tips on how to get noticed?

start talking more, dont be quiet.. raise your voice so everyone can hear it. Id probably have the same problem as you but id know what i need to do to fix it. They wont judge you if you talk alot, they will judge you if you stay quiet in the background.

Totally agree, and dude your friend is a natural, hang out with him and break his shit down, know how and why he does it, all his moves, what the says etc and then try his techniques and I bet you if you do this for a while you may even become a better natural yourself.
btw that's how Brad P. became a natural and many other PUA, by studying and learning from naturals/AMOGs and then replicating their moves and amplifying them to make the techniques more powerful.

ps I met a really good natural on Halloween and I'm so tocked to go out at night with him this weekend just to see how he does his stuff and I don't really care if he AMOGs me because I wanna learn his moves and what makes him get the girl

Cheers

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V3nu