alright so straight in simple theres this girl i liked for over a month.she stopped talking to me for no reason.i messeged her every day and she would just ignore it.Ended up talking to one of her friends showed her the conversation she got pissed.i told her that i liked her and she started talking to me again but idk if its cuz she just feels sorry or what.i realy want this girl cuz i love feeling challenged and while it would be alot easier to get a different girls i dont like feeling like i cant do anything because i always can.

Sounds Like you may be coming off needy. I would back off and leave her alone for while. Get really busy focus on yourself look at inner game material. find some new interest guitar, dancing, Martial arts. if you have an interesting life then she will find you more interesting. get some new cloths change your look. then after a few months of ignoring or being to busy to see or hang around reintroduce yourself show her some of your new hobbies tell her some stories and have the confidence that you don't need her. Then it's game on. Your a new man but hey after all that work you may find someone you like better anyway . I then you don't have to fight a needy first impression.

two other things i didnt add.one i play football and a little guitar,two im 14 years old.and 3 physically speaking i have been told that i am good looking

Still inner game is key. I think most of us on the forums wishes we had our game in High School, Junior high. being younger make some things harder since you don't have your own source of income but it is also a lot easier cause your not expected too . Seems like you got some interest keep with them. but I would still work on inner game. I cannot tell you how key it is. Inner game is huge and in school years it's key. If you have the means of friend with the means I would recommend David Dangelos Deep inner game. if you don't there are some inner game videos on you tube. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WYE178CCtHk Here is one I just quickly found.

Dude, you are 14.

Just go out there and have fun. Live your life with no regret, don't look back and enjoy.

If you are still single by the age of 20-25 come back to pua school. Just experiment on your own for the time being.

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lololol when a girl purposely ignores you, then you obviously did something wrong and need to move on

haha so i really dont need to follow these techniques cuz i want to be like an expert by the time im in college

HOLY CRAP!!! you are 14 years old man.
Go hang out at the skate park and movies and go do some immature shit or something. Don't get caught up in this too early in your life.
Yes it is great that you are trying to improve your life and all, but really, when you think about it, you have barely entered puberty.


You have deffinatly come off as needy messaging her everyday. No doubt in my mind. All I ask is why? If she didn't start to reply, then move on to bigger, better things.

"i realy want this girl cuz i love feeling challenged and while it would be alot easier to get a different girls i dont like feeling like i cant do anything because i always can."

Im calling you out. I don't believe that you are in a state of abundance with women just yet. If you were you would have found out about the community and brushed it away.
Though I don't approve of someone your age learning game, if I was in your shoes I would be doing the exact same thing.

I agree with RhythmSLC at this point. What you want to focus on is inner game. Building yourself into an attractive young man at this point should be the goal. Find some stuff on Youtube, read some inner game books, do whatever, but remember this: Even if you read the greatest PUA super always get laid 100% gaurantee book or whatever there is out there, it isn't going to mean shit unless you ACTIVLY start to APPLY this knowledge in real life.

Just my 2c worth

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