I am fairly new to the community and have been looking at some pua material online for a month or so now. I now feel as though i am prepared to go in field with some routine stacks prepared.

Thus am heading out to some bars and clubs tonight. I am optimistic about things going well tonight as I have seen in field videos of pua using similar material. Thus I am expecting to get some number closes tonight (a good starting point. Lol)

A question I have though is whether I should be throwing myself in an the deep end (so to speak) and open hot girls from the start? (to enable me to feel more comfortable around them) or opening average girls to begin with (to get some experience under my belt) and then build up to the HB's over time? (not that i'm superficial in any way. lol) Remember tonight will be my first night Sarging.

Any help with this question would be much appreciated.



Thanks

Honestly?

Open every girl you see. During day game I tried to open every (non underage and not too old) set I see. You have the luxury of night game, don't be picky, Approach women. Don't set an impossible standard by, ugh that girl isnt good enough for me. Just open on everyone you see, and try to make the conversation flow where you want it to go. You have the option of closing who you want, although I recommend number closing every time you can. Get experience with the hotties and the not so hotties.

I think the answer to your question is the less atractive ones, even guys. Its your first night so you have to build state. Talk to everyone as much as possible and you'll soon be in a talking mood.

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go with a buddy or wing man who is enthusiastic about it, and get a lil alcohol in your system = Good to go.

I agree wtih everyone talk to everybody even the bouncer's.Now of course your
not going to be trying to attract the bouncer's but you do this for 2 reasons's.

1get into a talking mood
2you want to show that your a social guy aka social proof

Hold your nose and jump into the deep end!!

just open in general, let go off the results for now. set reachable goals like "Open 5 sets tonight"

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Speak to the girls that you are attracted to if thats your goal, but remember to have fun!!!

It doesn't really matter if you come away with anything. Your main goal everytime you head out should be to enjoy the experience. If girls are a part of that experience then great!! If not then don't sweat it. Your aim should also not be based on results because 99% (not actuall fact, just a phrase) of guys who join this community don't get the results they want the first time they go out.

Also I can almost gaurantee you that if you try to copy someone's style of approaching from a video off of youtube, that your not going to come across as congruent to who you really are.

Just my 2c

Brad

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It is a personal decision-at this stage your goal is to just get talking. Results will come eentually with practice.

However, I think you may be underestimating the bitchiness of average vs HB's, the difference between them is probably much smaller than you think. If you want to break yourself in gradually, I'd hit on girls who are giving approach indicators (eg, playing with their hair, hanging around you, anything that suggest they might subconsciously or consciously want you to talk to them).
It is also more depressing when you get blown out by an average girl and that will happen often-personally I find it deflating to get blown out by a girl I know isn't in my league (though you should always adopt the attitude that you are slightly above the status of the girl you are sarging).

The difference between HB's and average girls in terms of successful approaches is much smaller than the difference between girls who are and are not giving you AI.

Ultimately, as others have said, you are going to have hit on everyone. Some might say there is no safe entry to PUA as any approach is like bungee-jumping to start with.