So i've been friends with this girl for a while and recently did we start hooking up,
we're going to stop soon as her boyfriends going to be back in town but the sexual tension between us is too high.

We've planned for one last hookup, where i wanna end the sexual tension, just because its fair. We're not planning to have sex (guys don't grill me but she wants to stay a virgin till shes married and i respect that), but I wanna know what the best way of giving her an orgasm is. I'm planning to go down on her and i know i should play with her "C" (lol), but...

What's the best way of giving her an orgasm she'll remember?

This is going to be explicit...lol...so I don't know if this will stay up bro.

But...

Best way to do this (Every girl is different, so it may not work depending on how safe she feels around you) to go down on the girl, but only start out doing the ABC's with your tongue...just as a warm up to get the juices flowing.

Next you're going to want to finger her WHILE you're lightly sucking on her clit. And always stimulate the G-Spot with your fingers.

To find the G-Spot on a girl, all it is is about second knuckle deep inside of her, and it's on what would be the vagina's "ceiling". So basically just keep doing the "Come here" motion with your fingers inside of her. And she'll be loving it.

Just keep doing that, and there may come a time where the girl will be like "Stop". Ask her why? And I know for a fact that it's because she's going to say something like, "I need to go to the rest room", or "It's so intense".

Basically the girl is saying she doesn't want to explode in front of your face. I usually just tell them to relax and go with the flow. You'll notice when a girl is about to cum, by the way the G-Spot feels to your fingers. It will swell up and it'll feel almost like a little ball that has formed inside her. Just keep going and Presto!...you'll have the girls (most likely her first) orgasm.

...Just watch out for the girls that are "shooters"...it gets pretty insane once you've found one of those.

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You all take 'er easy. And if she's easy, take her twice.

Also, you'll probably figure out very quickly if she's incredibly sensitive or not. If she is too sensitive then flatten out your tongue and don't use the tip directly on the "...C". There's really no other way to say that. Sometimes it can hurt rather than give pleasure, and some women are bad at pointing these things out (especially the first time because they think it's supposed to be like that or something) so watch out for her body going rigid and vice versa to know if you're hitting the right spots.

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Haha damn, thank you guys, im going to copy paste this stuff just in case it doesn't get deleted.

Thanks so much though

With most girls I've found that its the build up to the orgasm, that is most important. Make your you don't go straight for the oral pleasure. Lots of kissing, pay special attention and focus to parts of her body leading up to the pleasure. (i.g. neck, ribs, inner thighs) Light teasing to arouse her, and build tension.

Build it up with a lot of touching and kissing. Be sensitive and move your fingers down her back lightly.

And the ABC's thing is wrong. She needs constant stimulation through repitition. Just lick up and down on the clit. If you do the ABC's it'll break the repitition.

There is no cut and paste, wrong or right way to do it. Every girl is different, I've tasted some girls that got down with me lightly sucking her clit. Other girls thats too intense. You just got to feel it out, its all trial and error, and as long as your being observant to the way she moves her body you can't go wrong. Look for pelvic thrusts, watch her hands for sheet clenching, lip biting, listen to her breathing patterns. These are all good signs that what your doing is right. The only thing you can do wrong, is ask.


And yes...exploders are fun.

Quick question, should I just eat her out until she orgasms or should I lick her to build it up and then use my fingers on her clit? I was playing around with her yesterday and she was getting really squirmy while I was playing with her clit, so i think thats a sweet spot for her..

But should I finish up using oral or should i use my fingers?

Dude, every girls sweet spot is her clit. If she's squirmy then keep doing what your doing.

No...A girls sweet spot is her G-Spot. The clit just helps stimulate her from the outside in, while stimulating the G-Spot will truthfully cause her to have the orgasm. Same way how a mans G-Spot is in his ass, and if you've ever tried donating sperm and can't get an erection, then the assistant will "assist" you, by manipulating the man's G-Spot. And you'll know when you've given her an orgasm. It won't be through her telling you that she had an orgasm, it's through actually seeing it, and if you're manipulating the G-Spot correctly...you can feel it coming.

People who say a girls orgasm is different from a guy's don't know. Even women may say this, but the fact is that they most likely never had an authentic orgasm...they may think they have had one, but only when bodily fluids are secreted is when an orgasm has came to a climax.

True...juices are secreted from the vagina throughout the entire sexual experience, but those secretions are merely to keep the vagina from drying out..making the sex bearable to the woman. No...when a woman has an orgasm, it'll be like a water faucet has let loose.

Also, the ABC's is legit. Like most of you had already noted on this topic. It's best to lead up to the foreplay. That also is true to the foreplay itself.

It's like...have you ever had a girl go down on you, and she was overly aggressive, and it caused you not go anywhere, when it comes to gaining an orgasm? Same thing goes for women. And ESPECIALLY the clit. The clit is like a mini penis with like...I think 20 times the amount of nerve endings in it to begin with. You've got to manipulate it first off, for it to even merge out from it's hood...that's where the ABC's routine runs into fruition. You're not directing you're tongue to the clit, but every so often you're merely grazing it, to coax it out of it's shell sort of speak.

There is no denying that the ABC's routine is boring...where you're most likely just wanting to pound that shit in...but it's best to wait for the good stuff along the road.

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[quote="Tom_"Maybe""]No...A girls sweet spot is her G-Spot. The clit just helps stimulate her from the outside in, while stimulating the G-Spot will truthfully cause her to have the orgasm. Same way how a mans G-Spot is in his ass, and if you've ever tried donating sperm and can't get an erection, then the assistant will "assist" you, by manipulating the man's G-Spot. And you'll know when you've given her an orgasm. It won't be through her telling you that she had an orgasm, it's through actually seeing it, and if you're manipulating the G-Spot correctly...you can feel it coming.

People who say a girls orgasm is different from a guy's don't know. Even women may say this, but the fact is that they most likely never had an authentic orgasm...they may think they have had one, but only when bodily fluids are secreted is when an orgasm has came to a climax.

True...juices are secreted from the vagina throughout the entire sexual experience, but those secretions are merely to keep the vagina from drying out..making the sex bearable to the woman. No...when a woman has an orgasm, it'll be like a water faucet has let loose.

Also, the ABC's is legit. Like most of you had already noted on this topic. It's best to lead up to the foreplay. That also is true to the foreplay itself.

It's like...have you ever had a girl go down on you, and she was overly aggressive, and it caused you not go anywhere, when it comes to gaining an orgasm? Same thing goes for women. And ESPECIALLY the clit. The clit is like a mini penis with like...I think 20 times the amount of nerve endings in it to begin with. You've got to manipulate it first off, for it to even merge out from it's hood...that's where the ABC's routine runs into fruition. You're not directing you're tongue to the clit, but every so often you're merely grazing it, to coax it out of it's shell sort of speak.

There is no denying that the ABC's routine is boring...where you're most likely just wanting to pound that shit in...but it's best to wait for the good stuff along the road.[/quote]

Dude, every female is different. Just because a woman doesn't "ejaculate" doesn't mean she hasn't orgasmed. There is absolutely no fact to back that up.

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Don't take my word? Then maybe you'll take AskMen.com's article about making a woman ejaculate.

Right here...

http://www.askmen.com/dating/love_tip_1 ... e_tip.html

Or do an experiment for yourself...

Finger a girl on her bed, and see if you can feel the G-Spot ball up, and have her ejaculate. Chances are she won't.

Then go into the shower with her, and do the exact same method I've been preaching, and I shit you not...she'll ejaculate in the shower just fine.

True...there are some girls out there (In rarity), that can't do it...but that goes the same for men. There are always anomalies to every situation...but I have never ran into a woman that doesn't ejaculate when she is comfortable to do so.

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You all take 'er easy. And if she's easy, take her twice.

[quote="Tom_"Maybe""]Don't take my word? Then maybe you'll take AskMen.com's article about making a woman ejaculate.

Right here...

http://www.askmen.com/dating/love_tip_1 ... e_tip.html

Or do an experiment for yourself...

Finger a girl on her bed, and see if you can feel the G-Spot ball up, and have her ejaculate. Chances are she won't.

Then go into the shower with her, and do the exact same method I've been preaching, and I shit you not...she'll ejaculate in the shower just fine.

True...there are some girls out there (In rarity), that can't do it...but that goes the same for men. There are always anomalies to every situation...but I have never ran into a woman that doesn't ejaculate when she is comfortable to do so.[/quote]

Yeah...so, I'm a female. I'm pretty aware of what goes on with my body.

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That's beyond the point I'm trying to make.

The topic is how to make a girl orgasm, and I gave the guy the most potent way to make a girl orgasm studied and proven by many.

You stimulate the g-spot, because that'll trigger the inner muscles, and you lightly suck on the clit...that'll trigger the outer muscles.

Sense you are a girl, you'll have to admit that technique makes the most sense than anything else.

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You all take 'er easy. And if she's easy, take her twice.

[quote="Tom_"Maybe""]That's beyond the point I'm trying to make.

The topic is how to make a girl orgasm, and I gave the guy the most potent way to make a girl orgasm studied and proven by many.

You stimulate the g-spot, because that'll trigger the inner muscles, and you lightly suck on the clit...that'll trigger the outer muscles.

Sense you are a girl, you'll have to admit that technique makes the most sense than anything else.[/quote]

I was merely responding to a comment I didn't agree with. But yes, you're right about the technique itself.

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