| How so? I usually do the same thing with all girls and it tends to work most of the time. If I don't get them to give it up, often I just have them on the side as a future prospect I just have to do more to pursue. I think that perhaps you're thinking too much into it. I have dated indian girls, chinese and korean girls, black girls, and white girls. All people are attracted to things that are interesting. Be interesting no matter who it is and they'll come to you man. I find it good to know facts about random bull shit and then relay it to girls cause all it takes is one little statement to catch their attention and after that conversation should just come naturally. Sometimes, I'll give them a fact to steer towards a conversation I know I can handle. For example, with an indian girl, I will sometimes open with, hey I'm sorry to bother you, but I'm just curious as to where you're from exactly. You look indian but there's something different I can't point my finger at. Now, it's pretty simple from here, she'll tell you where she is from, if it's something even slightly out of the norm, act as though you've never heard of anyone like that before and ask her more about it like oh, so is that where you were born? Do you still have family there? Tell her where you're from and talk about yourself for a second. Often, I would love to do this, but brown girls are often afraid of my African side although I'm not African looking at all. If you know current event about the area she's from, throw it out at her, and if she doesn't know about it, she'll only be a little taken back that you would be up to date about something completely out of your element. You can do the same thing for many girls that look exotic. And then, if you have some out of country experience tell them, cause it's in the context now. There is nothing wrong with asking someone where they're from if they look slightly different as long as you don't do it condescendingly. With black and white girls it's a bit different. As for black girls, I often feel very comfortable. They always seem very welcoming and easy to approach I don't know why that is. I usually don't even have to use an opener, a simple hey, I'm looking for the time or do you know where the bathroom is, or anything simple can get me started. This method works with white girls as well. All I need is the original question, such as "Hey, do you happen to know where the restroom is?" and whatever the answer, before I walk away for the restroom I'll ask, "Where did you get your (earrings, bracelet, shoes, shirt, etc.) from? my sister would love it..." then ask "If you don't mind me asking, how much did you spend on that in case I do want to get it for my sister" now this does one of two things for you, it keeps the conversation going, and it lets them know that you are a caring person. You can even push it further like, "Ehh, I don't know though, my sisters really picky, she always buys things she likes one day and returns them the next, but I think all girls are like that..." giving her room to respond again. It really isn't that difficult as long as you always portray confidence. One more thing, I find it a slight bit more difficult with indian girls because I feel like they always assume if a boy is talking to them of the same color that the boy is interested. I don't really know why actually and that kind of puts their guard up for a moments time but it's not difficult to break that down just because you share that commonality to begin with. Hope that helps you man. I just hate to see brown boys claim that it's impossible to get with other races because of their skin. Girls are attracted physically, but one way to get them attracted to you physically is appealing to their emotional and mental aspects as well. You will not believe the number of girls that used to like me when I was fat just because I knew how to talk. I lost a lot of my sweettalking abilities as I lost weight because I grew more cocky then humble but it still works cause I'm now humbly cocky lol
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