So tonight im at a bar its college night im hanging with my friends and the place gets pretty full, lots of pretty girls. My problem is I always feel like I have nothing to say. Im not really scared to talk just have nothing to talk about. My other problems are confidence and I dont have the alfa male thing.

This college night happened every sunday and im going back, do you guys have any advice ?

Hey, you just have to go up to people and start talking - think of some college events or something that have happened recently (exams, events, weird news) - ask for their opinions, and think of replies to each answer -

"Hey did you girls go to the garden party on thursday?"
Yes -
No -
"Why are you asking?" -

TBH I don't actually know what a good reply would be lol, I'm new to the game, but I'll give some replies a go - maybe others can tell whether I've got the idea or not...

Yes - "I bet you study arts" (in New Zealand an arts degree has little merit, and most people do little work, and hence have lots of free time to go to parties)
No - "So is this the first time you've been out this year?"
"Why are you asking?" - "I'm sure it was you... throwing up all over this guy - that's why you're not answering the question isn't it?" - "that was so gross"


I hope that helps,

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