Hello everyone,
I am new to the forum and just had a quick question on a girl that I am pursuing. But before I ask let me give some general background information. This hot female is my tutor at college; we usually have our tutoring sessions on Tuesdays. This past Friday, I asked her over email if she drinks coffee and she responded that she does not, however she provided some alternative drinks that she enjoys from Starbucks and Dunkins at the end of her email she ask “why.” I will be honest I really wanted to ask her If she would like to get together and grab a drink later that night however I got nervous and pussied out. Instead I responded to her by saying “I was thinking about grabbing us a drink for our tutoring session on Tuesday. What do you think?” She has not responded to my email and I can’t help the feeling like I blew it.
What do you guys think about the situation and how can I recover from it?

Just show up to the next session with a coffee for yourself. Don't get her anything, see what she says, and go from there

It doesn't sound like you blew it, but how long has it been since you've emailed her?

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Haha... Fattie that sounds really cruel but kind of funny in a way. Do you think she will think I am a dick? if I do that

Hey Vanity,
I emailed her this past Friday.

well you basically asked her if she wanted one but she hasnt replied yet right? so if shes like "where's mine?" say something along the lines of "oh, i dint know that you wanted one, you never replied to my email". but dont say sorry or anything like that

i also want to mention, that i think ur instincts were right. you should've just asked her out rather than offering to bring hera coffee or w/e next time you have a session. i see that as something that a friend would do, and i think it would just lead to the LJBF discussion.....but i think you can stilll get this one back on track!

Hmm...damn. Women like to play their own games with men (and lesbians..whatever). It just doesn't seem like it should be that big of a deal that you pussied out. Try what (insert username here) said and don't get her a drink next time. It's not mean, it's gaming.

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It sounds like your having trouble conjuring up the testicular fortitude to ask this girl out through email. I personally wouldn't ever ask a girl out over email unless it was online dating. Mostly because it doesn't feel like there is any balls in it. Maybe I can help you out a little:

1)Ask for her number: If you ask for her number in person, not even she will think its weird. She's your tutor right? This is a perfectly feasible scenario: "Hey I'm running late!" (Don't use that as your excuse for asking! You need no excuse to ask for her number!)

2)Don't ask her, tell her and see how she fallows: I've found that asking really doesn't get you very far. Now its still okay to ask on occasion, but usually only after you've established report and after you've established that your a man. So after you get her number and you call her, ease into the conversation, be funny, witty, and charming (You are all those things right? Well you wont be unless you believe you are!). Keep it short. Then say, "Hey, we should grab a drink sometime." Chances are, she wont reject you if you've been socially swavy.

3)For gods sake, lead the frame so the poor girl doesn't have to!: Tell her where you guys are going, and when. If she cant make it at the time you suggest, find out when she's free and immediately reschedule.

4)Be a fuckin man for fucks sake!: If you want women, you need to be a man. Women like men, not pussies. If women liked pussies, you'd still be shit out of luck because they'd be too distracted by all the muff running around to even pay attention to you! Don't be afraid to lean in for the kiss, don't be afraid to smack her hard on the ass (when appropriate of coarse), don't be afraid to whip out your dick and fuck her sideways where she stands!

Good luck to you bro! Remember: Be a man, because you are one and she wants you to be one!

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