Please tell me the honesty route is not that you told her yes, I can't tell you how to live your life, but I can tell you my experiences, If you do have a crush on her I am guessing saying yes feels really right even though she is with your friend, it sounds like she is trying to get an invite to hang out with you,that is what makes me fear you said yes

I know what is gonna happen cause I have seen it and been involved with the situation tons of time, so Instead of telling you not to do it, since in your state of one-itis you wont listen, I am gonna tell you what is GOING to happen

You will go after girl

Everything will seem perfect about you two

She will leave friend for you

Friend WILL find out

Friend WILL feel VERY heartbroken and betrayed, by her, but mostly by you

You will make up reasons in your head why he is wrong, why he didnt deserve her

These negative thoughts will lead to a very genuine dislike for him and vice versa

You will never be true friends ever again

and the girl will turn out NOT to be the one...everytime





So if you prefer to "follow your heart" never claim that you didnt know you were throwing away a friend, mind you probably a friend that is way more valuable and true to you than the girl could ever be

I am not judging you, Just making it perfectly clear how big of a mistake this is

lol standard play from her....a guy she isn't interested in told her he has a crush on her....she completely ignores it and talks about something trivial!

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man i don't think it was any sort of invite or look for an invite...if she was interested she would have said something flirty back!

Regards

Lucky

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"How are the fireworks where you're at?"

c'mon how do you think this girl isnt setting the guy up for something like

"Why don't you come find out"

girls game guys just as much as guys game them

And if she was not at least a lil interested she probably wouldn't have asked him about his crush

some girls like to feel in control...they like the ego boost, which she now has!

and its after 11...fireworks finish around then or before so there was definitely not gonna be an invite!

regards

Lucky

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Sorry, Western U.S. .... lol Major time difference

dont worry lads i would never betray my freind

but this is not really pua in all honesty is it , its more school kid crushes and such

besides i dont see her leaving my comrade any time soon

i think perhaps "how are the fireworks" is more of an invite in the USA than britain
i think it was meant in a literal sence

Yeah, In the US I would consider it fishing for an invite

I have had tons of girls fish for invites like that on the 4th of July in very similar ways

and every time they came and watched my fireworks

kinda makes me want to be in the US
pua stuff seems more entrenched in peoples minds over there

EDIT: never mind, didn't realise there was a second page.

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*snigger*

This question is pointless, friends girls aren't viable targets. Be ashamed if you think other wise...

well here is the conclusion

due to some circumstances she ended up in my bed (dont know how)
escalating with me
i rejected her advances for obvious reasons (HARDEST THING TO DO EVER!)
i feel like a punk even though i did the right thing but whatever did right my comrades and have not hurt anyone and this has all been swept under the capet

what an unsatisfying conclusion