Is it okay to have a mixture of alpha male/beta male traits?

To me, Alpha is a lifestyle. I don't do it just to pick up women. I -am- alpha, I've developed an Alpha-lifestyle and it keeps me going every single day. It keeps me happy.

Expressing a softer nature to a women or as you state ' beta male ' traits is not a negative thing. Only does this become negative if its implemented into the early stages of your pickup. Once the comfort is there, the connection base is formed, then feel free to express your emotions...as long as she is doing the same ...

Remember, to live in your own world...your internally validated, you dont need to look to the outer world for validation.

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Being alpha with beta traits will make you look incongruent.

Also an alpha male doesn't do something, he is something

Why don't you tell us what specific traits you have in mind, because these terms "alpha male" and "beta male" are open to wide variations of interpretation.

For instance, how you talk to someone. If you're not gaming a girl in a group for instance, do you still act dominant in a conversation with others guys? I remember talking to a PUA who was AMOGGING. At the time I didn't know he was a PUA and I made conversation with him. I noticed how he abruptly interrupted me while I was talking; he asked me a question about something I was talking about and I had to stop and answer his question and then continue on what I was talking about originally. I guess this was his way of showing dominance, even in conversation.

There is no 1 kind of alpha. There are million different alpha males out there, you are not alpha if you try to act one. You have to become one. Confidence is base for being alpha.

I think it's okay to be beta sometimes. Depending on how you define beta, a wingman sometimes has to be the beta.

Pick-up is a game. Making real, life long male friends is an entirely different thing. NO ONE likes to be interrupted while he/she is talking. Not even the girl that you're gaming. Your social life, popularity, and love life have almost no correlation with each other.

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Does anyone ever feel like you dont want to be alpha around your best friend. I get that feeling sometimes, because friendship is more about being equal. I usually do things that alpha shouldnt when Im with my best friend.

Sound familiar to any1?