Broke up with my girlfriend a few weeks ago and need to turn PUA skills on a reconcilliation with this girl. We dated for 3 months, really serious, talking marriage, anyway, learned some hard stuff to hear about her past, over-reacted, flailed all over the thing for a few days and she broke up with me. She has a son that this happened in front of and, anyway, I love her and want back together with her. She's called me for a ride since and kissed me goodnight after, nothing serious, but there is definitely something there that I need to access and block the negative that I created. We're getting together later tonight to discuss her borrowing my car for a week to go to work. Need some advice on this one guys. Give me hand. Leaning toward loaning her the car as a no big deal thing, but want to insure that I get the attraction and desire for relationship thing going, not just the "nice guy"....

You're letting your EX GIRLFRIEND borrow your car for a week, let alone a chick your not even fucking borrow your car for a fucking week bro? Da Fuck is wrong with you.

At any rate, never apologize unless it was some serious freaking out on your end. And what you mean about, "learned some hard stuff to hear about her past", dude the past is the fucking past. Did she cheat on you or something?

yeah, found out she was still legally married... and the freak out was in front of her 5 year old son, so that being said, thanks for the advice.

Didn't know you were supposed to meet with her to discuss things.

I would cancel on her.

Posted a response to JPOW on my other thread on this subject...