ok ill go though the short version
there’s a girl i like, but one prob is that she’s got wind of me have quite a few one night stand's

so she is reluctant to go out with me, plus ive known her for 2 years and we have always been really close. today we kissed , when i got home i got this message

"I wasn’t drunk, I was tipsy and I had full control of my actions it was a bad idea, and its bad i have wanted to do that all day. Sorry"

ok from what i have gathered from this is that she sees me more as a friend than a boyfriend but still is attracted to me so i want to know how can i get her to see me as the later.

to make it more interesting the same day she lost a bet and has to be my slave for a day so i have 24 hours of "alone time" to sink the message in that is Tuesday to Wednesday

i would love some advice but please dont go and say find someone else as i really like her whice is really weird as shes not even that great looking or smart

She is attracted. Style might say go caveman on her, but I'm not entirely sure of that. Seems like she is going through some anti-slut defense behaviour as well. If this "slave for a day" thing is real and she plays along with it take is as an invitation, you should have no problem with this.

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Personally, attractive quality subcom and deep comfort are probably the two key sectors you may need to work on here. The attraction is there, but for her to see you as boyfriend material, you have to show her your boyfriend material. And hey, when she wants to kiss, or even fuck...dont give it up that easily . Make her work for the goods, and sooner or later, she'll come begging...but remember, there's a difference between giving her the cold shoulder, and teasing her ...throw in alittle JP ( Jealousy Plotlines ) when the two of you are out together, show her you have an abundance of women in your life, and she can loose you at any moment. You'll notice, overtime, she'll begin to work harder for your attention. Its common for women to behave in such a manor when there is a large amount of attraction there, so exploit it , but dont cross the line and come off as an egotistical bastard ...all the best bud!

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