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Alright so here it goes, I have begun my first time of being a PUA, and i set out to do the newbie mission, you know where the AFC goes out and says hi or tries to say hi to 20 women. Well, I found that going to one of the malls where the HB 8-10 go and well, I found it way to intimidating, so I went and switched up to another mall where the HB 5-7, but I still only got 3 or 4 girls after saying hi, do you know what I am doing wrong? And also, later on in the night, at this fun park, I talked to a girl on her shift like this:
Me: Hi
Her: Hey, How are you?
Me: great (tired), and why do you sound so tired hmm? Busy?
Her: Yeah, its been like busy all day
Me: Well come on be cheerful, but is it always like this?
Her: Yeah, its usually okay
Me: Why dont you work at the mall?
Her: I did, but it isnt that great
Me: Really? Why not?
Her: blah blah blah
Me: Well do you go out?
Her: not much i just relax with my friends and all
Me: well if you ever want to go out you should try club purgatory.....
I was trying but it didnt go so well what did i do wrong guys?
Well for the first one your doing nothing wrong, your just a bit scared and you just need to push through that with time. Good job going out their and doing that though (Y)
For your second problem....
Questions, your asking to many, pretty much everything you are saying is a question trying to elicit a response from her, at this stage you can't rely on her to provide the leg/mouthwork.
Take centre stage, say something interesting, voice opinions, make comments etc Then as the conversation goes on, she will start to open to you
Good luck man!
CHAT
