I like to slip in sexual innuendos. It makes the girl laugh, amuses me, and i guess it gets her to think about sex while speaking with me. On the other hand it definitely could be viewed as "hitting" on the girl or sleezy. So a couple of questions: Should i usually avoid making sexual innuendos or eloquently stating that i'd like to have sex with said girl? Is verbalizing sexual intention a big mistake? Or should i stick to projecting a sexual state and escalating kino? Any advice on the subject of talking about sex would be appreciated.

Verbalizing sexual intention is NEVER a mistake as long as it's natural. Do it from the beginning, it will automatically disqualify you from the friend zone and the girl will always see you as a guy that wants to get with her. That's not a bad thing as long as you're being yourself...if you're saying it in a shy or unsure manner, you'll completely blow yourself out. If you believe in what you're saying and truly believe she wants to hear it, you're putting yourself in the best position for the pickup.

Even if it's not that night, she'll know that you want her. Never be apologetic for it. As I just posted in another thread, I have had great success taking home girls on the first night doing this. On the other hand, I've had tons that acted completely turned off by it. They'd tell me how they're not that kind of girl, bla bla bla...but then the next time I see them, they're all over me and glory times ensue. If not the 2nd time, then maybe the 3rd time.

The main thing to remember is to always be congruent with yourself...don't say something if you're not comfortable doing it. And if you do say it, stand by it 100%. Never back down. Never take it back. If you do, you'll lose all momentum you had and she'll view you as weak.

good question, i was wondering about this as well.

awesome advice nomadic, very helpful

No way man. If it's working and she's laughing or playing along stay in the sexual state. Throw in some comfort and start sexual kino.

Easiest way? wait and listen for them to say something that can be taken sexually, exploit the pun, shut down the "Sexual" comment and tell them they haven't earned sexy time yet

I wouldn't necessarily say "shut down" the sexual comment because they're going to think your not interested and possibly start viewing you as a friend. I say tap into that sexual talk and even talk ABOUT sex. That'll bring a load of comfort and get the tension higher.

the problem is, is that often they take it as a joke and it remains as a joke to them. in this case escalate kino?