Hey Guys

First time posting here, maybe you can help me. So I had a date with this girl. Made out closed, so I thought I was all good. I sent her a facebook message "Hopefully I can see you again soon Plus you have my cd haha"

She never answered and I realized that I had probably been to eager or said too much...I ignored her for a (sunday) Then texted her monday and facebook chatted her on tuesday. Both convo's were half hearted. Then I called her thursday to ask her out that weekend, she never returned the call. Now I realize i was being waay too pushy; and probably because i just got out of a year and a half long relationship and have the tendency to act really irrational right now..

Anyway, after she didnt return the call, I figured that was it. So I got on with my weekend and low and behold sunday night, she wrote on my wall " hey sorry i didn't get back to your call on thursday, you called me during class. How was your halloween? maybe we can hangout soon =)"

WTF?! I responded back the next day (yesterday) " It's definitely a possibility And my halloween went great, only had to scalp three nazi's (i was the bear jew for halloween). Hope yours was lots of fun too"

Ok, Now I want this girl, but I dont want to chase her off. What should I do? if anything...

Lets think about this.

-You want to bang her
-to bang her you need to meet up with her
-to meet up with her you need to contact her to arrange the time

So you should talk to her, arrange a meet up, meet up, and bang her. Too easy.

But seriously, I highly recommend you meet more chicks because you are being needy. Needy enough to ask guys on an online forum for advice so you wont screw this relationship up.

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hey man....i recommend you just be a bit more standoffish....don't jump at the chance to see her. if she asks to do something just say "yeah sure...i'll give you a call about it some time" or something along those lines.
Hope that helps!

Regards

Lucky

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"Better to keep your mouth closed and have people think you're a fool than to open at and remove all doubt."

While I totally agree with you I really dont understand this part. What is this online forum for - if not for players seeking advice?

Don't show her you are needy, it lowers your value, you shouldn't even think like that. She should know that she's just another girl and you can easily find someone else. Let her chase you a bit.

This is the key component right here with your situation. She ignored you at two attempts you made... you need to disipline her. Don't jump through her trap and let her take the lead. You need to show her your the one of high value and make her respect that. Like Lucky said give her the idea it is very clear you have other priorities.