Hi I'm a 19yr old college student, a self-proclaimed nerd of the pseudo-sciences and gastronomy, and a failure with women. I'm that guy whom every girl I know see me as the guy of comfort and nothing more; the guy who has to listen to problems and help when I really don't want to. I have this pattern of dating girl.. friends and that's exactly it, they see me as nothing more. I'm actually, in every case, below the guy who is the shoulder to lean on.

It's time for a change, and I'm very happy to be reading the book 'The Game' written by Neil Strauss or Style as he calls himself. But I'm sure everyone in this community either is or finished reading this book. I have a good friend to thank for that. He opened up my world to a lifestyle where all my frustrations with women can go right out the window.

I'm a virgin who has yet to even hold a girls hand.

I am a procrastinator of the highest calibre no more. I used to not have a job or go to school and wasted away in my parents basement watching TV shows on my laptop and smoking pot everyday with friends. Last month I decided enough was enough. I got myself into the advanced class in a cooking school bypassing the basic class by passing a written and practical. I just recently got myself a job and start in 2 weeks. I got a gym membership. I accomplished all of this by lying to my parents about going to counseling for my procrastination and decided to counsel myself. All I need now is a girlfriend to finish my transformation.

I believe that this community can not only give me the help I need with women but help me defeat my procrastination problem forever. I'm a training chef and I need charisma, above average social skills and a major confidence boost. I know that people like to keep their routines to themselves, I think, but if anyone can give me any sort of help. Openers, negs, magic tricks, ways to peacock, other theories that you may know, etc etc, as I am very new to this. I'm from Whitby, Ontario, Canada. I'm able to travel to toronto on weekends, if anyone is willing to give me one on one's. As a student, I'm very poor and won't be able to pay for lessons or workshops, but I can and will promise to be a sponge and absorb all information thrown at me, improving in every way possible, and doing WHATEVER it takes to be a great PUA.

Thank you for your time for reading this long wall of text.

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