| Ciao guys,
this happened to me a few days ago. I met that two girls on Thursday at one salsa party (HB6 and HB8). We just danced a bit, talked a bit and agreed to go to another party on Saturday. They both seemed to like me and I didn't want to make much effort to pull them (or better said HB8), because I knew that I was going to see them again.
What happened on Saturday was, that they came to me to say hi etc etc as soon as they saw me. I was interested in HB8 so that was a good sign. But then something happened after a while. HB6 was clearly interested into me. Even much more than I was interested in her friend. It's really funny, when a girl tries to chat you up and you see all the "AFC mistakes" by her. Like a way too much effort, doing anything to make you feel comfortable paying a way to much attention to you and similar. I just could grab her hand and took her to my place if I wanted to, it was that obvious.
I'm sure that HB8 knew that her friend fancied me. Because she built that invisible wall when I talked to her later that night. In the way, that she didn't mind it, but there wasn't a chance for me to get closer. So I walked away, saying that there were some friends waiting for me. Then HB6 tried to chat me up again and asked me to walk her to the taxi (but it was bloody freezing outside so I had an excuse) when she was leaving. HB8 didn't change her attitude and got drunk later. So I talked to my friends and some other people. Everything what happened looked to me exactly like women's version of "bros before hoes".
Iknow that this post is a bit long, but I'm coming to an end. I'll see HB8 again on Thursday (it's a regular party). She is a new, but a regular there. I'm also new, but a good dancer (I've moved here from another city). HB6 won't be there, she lives in another city. My question is, what to do in this case if I wan't that HB8? Is there a chance? They really look like a very good (maybe best) friends.
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