Unanswered topics | Active topics |
New posts | Your posts
| Author | Message |
| lucky1990 | PostPosted: Sun Nov 01, 2009 11:19 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast |  |
Joined: Thu Oct 22, 2009 9:00 am
Posts: 88
Location: Glasgow | | hey guys!
im meetin a girl for drinks tomorrow and she's cool and a nice girl and all that...but im wondering how to keep things casual. how can you keep seeing a girl without it getting serious for her so that her feelings don't get hurt?
Regards
Lucky
_________________
"Better to keep your mouth closed and have people think you're a fool than to open at and remove all doubt."
|
|
| Top |
|
 |
| lucky1990 | PostPosted: Sun Nov 01, 2009 11:22 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | |
Joined: Thu Oct 22, 2009 9:00 am
Posts: 88
Location: Glasgow | | this is completely based on the assumption that she's not in the same mindset as i am by the way! just in case though.
_________________
"Better to keep your mouth closed and have people think you're a fool than to open at and remove all doubt."
|
|
| Top |
|
|
| Zip | PostPosted: Mon Nov 02, 2009 1:44 am | |
| Offline | | ♥ Forum Mommy ♥ |  |
Joined: Mon Nov 19, 2007 11:09 pm
Posts: 1459
Location: New York | | you can't control other people's feelings, so get that thought out of your head immediately.
things should be casual until they are TALKED about at a certain point in the relationship. both parties agree to be committed, or together, or whatever.
just don't lead her on in any way, and be absolutely honest and truthful. you don't have to announce to her that, "Babe, this is casual. Just wanted to be clear." just don't do anything that will mislead her into thinking you are getting married and going to have kids and a house and a dog.
_________________
- Zip
|
|
| Top |
|
|
| lucky1990 | PostPosted: Mon Nov 02, 2009 1:57 am | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | |
Joined: Thu Oct 22, 2009 9:00 am
Posts: 88
Location: Glasgow | | yehhhh i know i can't control anyones feelings...i just wanted to know if there was any like course of action i could take so that it stays casual and doesn't escalate into anythin serious!
thanks for the advice though!
Regards
Lucky
_________________
"Better to keep your mouth closed and have people think you're a fool than to open at and remove all doubt."
|
|
| Top |
|
|
|
|
You cannot post new topics in this forum
You cannot reply to topics in this forum
You cannot edit your posts in this forum
You cannot delete your posts in this forum
You cannot post attachments in this forum
|
CHAT