So last night was very hot. A lot of people and the dancefloor was FULL. So I was there with my friend in a good spot. A lof of girls arround. Then, a girl (HB10) start dancing infront of me. I was looking at her and continuing dancing. Then she turned back and went closer to me. At some point her butt was on me. I wasn't sure at all if she wanted to dance with me because the dancefloor was full so maybe there was some pushing. Later that night, I don't know if it was a coincidence, but she came back where I was and start dancing with her friend infront of me again. At this point I was sure I can do something. She did the same thing, I was going for it for about 10sec and everything goes well...until some douchebags came and cockblocked me big time. Start pushing everyone arround to make place. She was one of the hottest girl in the club and the group of guys was following her all arround. The girls (she was with another hot girl) don't even dance with them. I thought I could use that to "save" them but I was really blocked, and one of the guys was looking to fight with me because at the start of the night I pushed him to make some place to go out of the dancefloor. So I was sure if he saw me try to steal his "chicks" he will look for trouble. I didn't want that so I just stayed arround like a kid...-.-

I knew she was interested but too late. How could I know if I can go for it the first time a girl seems to want to dance with me?

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by trying to dance with her.

if she wanted to dance, she'll dance with you once you initiate. if she didn't she'll walk away.

simple.

How can I initiate without being too "rude"? What if she was only trying to make a place to dance? I was looking for a list of IOI that girl use to show that they want you to initiate the dance.

I know a lot of people when I go out, and most of the others I don't know I see them in college, so I don't want to create an ambarassing situation where I approach a girl and I see this girl every day.

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First of all, while out sarging, avoid aggressive animosity at all costs. Most girls are not attracted to macho bullshit. In fact they are so turned off that they will often flee the scene. Not because they are afraid of the violence, but because they are afraid that after your done with your petty shit you might go and talk to her.

Secondly, placing a hand on her upper hip is a great way to let her know your there and a great way to find out if shes comfortable with you dancing with her. The problem that I'm finding with your story is that it seems like this was more random, spontaneous, blind, and not really filled with much skill or intent. Running blind is a great way to find yourself in sets that are going no where, waste your time, and keep you from talking to girls with more potential.

Next time your looking to run dance floor game, try it with intent. Actually wanting to dance is a great way to initiate dance floor game. Not only does it mean that you'll probably have a bigger bag of tricks, but it means you'll be having legitimate fun; people are attracted to fun.

When your on the dance floor, make eye contact with girls and try to gage their reaction to you based on the type of eye contact (i.e. how long was it, did she look down and smile after locking eyes with you, does she look at you again after breaking contact, etc.). This is setting the stage for warm approach (which makes this easier because dancing is a fairly sexual expression).

After locking eyes and getting a good feeling about your approach, make your way over to her and start dancing. Red Dwarf suggests that you start off creating a space of non-judgmental acceptance by making the first sexual moves. This may seem ridiculous, but I've seen him do it, and it works pretty well. Turn around and grind on her, get low on the floor, unbutton some buttons on your shirt, rub up on yourself, etc.. This kind of stuff creates the idea that its okay for her to be sexual too. After all, you started it!

After shes dancing with you and your getting a good grind on. Don't let her grind on you for more than a minute or 2. You still want to create more sexual tension. To control this, turn her around by grabbing her belt loop, belt buckle, or simply by grabbing her waist. This puts the push/pull, dominance/compliance aspect into the mix as well as leaves her wanting more.

Good luck on the dance floor my man!

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You are right for the random thing. I was just dancing with my friends when I saw the opportunity. The problem I have is that I can't open a set in a club...I am not shy, but I just can't on a club. I prefer to open a set on class, college ect. The only place I feel confortable approaching a girl is on the dancefloor.

Thank you for the advices. They were clear and in order. I will try this next time I go out.

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*ahem*
Okay I'm starting to like dance game more now. Its all about body lang. Don't talk much. These vids totally helped me out.

For me, what worked best was set out that you can dance pretty cool. I was jerkin' and hardstyling at this rave and people were all into it and stuff. Then I had natural groups just come together b/c were all just having fun. Then I would be dipping and grooving around a girl that was dancing pretty good and I would spontaneously make my way to her. Then to play around, I would reverse grind for like a second where Im in front of her and smile to loosen things up.

Then I would do what this guy does in this video to see if she would grind. Its about testing her (Very useful):
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eM3_O0QP ... re=related

Then I would do what he does here to escalate. (Worked fking GREAT!)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1BqGMirSU7A

And play around and get the groove on like this:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BOAB7bH7 ... r_embedded