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PostPosted: Sun Nov 01, 2009 3:41 pm 
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I'm going to go sarge a bookstore alone today.
I've seen the idea of putting a gummy worm in a book and then making a joke about a bookworm, and seems funny, but... meh. I'd probably rather start with functional openers for this day-game situation.

So my question to you guys is this: How do you envision the perfect book store pickup to be?

For example, do you go: Functional opener --> small talk + 1 neg --> DHV --> bounce to a coffee place?


I've never done this before (never gone to a public place during the day for the sole purpose of picking up women), so I'm just trying to figure out what my -game plan- should be for every girl. I don't want to hit a point where I just get stalled in awkward conversation... so I really want to know exactly what i'm going to do.

But just launching into a DHV story or "the cube" seems really awkard and out of place if I've just functionally opened a girl at a booksore... How do I transition?
And should I just get a number, or should I try to insta-date?

ideas? Thanks


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PostPosted: Sun Nov 01, 2009 4:35 pm 
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situational opener, break bitch shield if there even is one, create a connection, number and go for day 2, because after all you can't isolate and close in a book store can you?


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Hello mate.

When I daygame in my town, bookstores are one of my favourite places - particularly as one has a café. Quite a high proportion of my lasting relationships actually come from bookstores (that, is, not ONSs).

Most of these, my opener was something like:

"Hi"

"What you reading" (Actually this is my usual one)

"What you drawing".

You don't need to do things you wouldn't normally do. Just have a normal, interesting conversation with a bit of push-pull. Where possible, flirt, but I tend to save this towards the end or in day 2.

The key is to set up a day 2 or insta-date. For me, this is the secret to day game. Numbers mean jack all.

I think maybe it varies geographically but at least here in England bookshop girls have been quite open to me. If you're congruent and just start talking to them, often they will stop and start talking to you back...it's a nice place to have a chilled out conversation. I find some of the most interesting girls come from here too.

Oh, and for a laugh, pick up one of those funny self-help dating books and use it as an opener. I've had surprisingly good success with this - the first time I did it, I just expected to be rejected and did it as a joke to this lone wolf:

Gamble:

(With book in hand, pretending to read it really slowly and lamely) "Errmmm...excuse me.....uh......you have........really..........beautiful.............eyes? Eyes...yeah eyes....you have beautiful eyes..." (It didn't actually say that in the book, I just thought it was funny).

HB:

"Thanks, you have nice eyes too :)"

I was like...wahay! Sit down, match body language, and off we go! (Turns out a group of my guy friends turned up and sat with us and burned the set. Oh wellies!)


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