well i caught this girl i like in a lie, gave her an ultimatum (im direct) and then she started to give me a freezeout, and way i can get her to feel it as much as me? weve been hooking up for a couple days.

What was the ultimatum?

what was the lie?
what was the ultimatum?

she does feel it as much as you, she knows that you were right, but her, being a girl, trys to make herself look innocent, and faultless. What you need to do is show her, without telling her, that you are perfectly FINE without her, and her freeze out wont alter your mental, or emotional, state at all.

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I'd be interested in knowing more details as well. I'm not a fan of giving ultimatums in general, but considering I don't fully know you situation, it may have been appropriate.

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well i move to the area last year. and probably july 09 i added her onn facebook by random. we started talking and a couple of hours later i got her number. and over the past few months shed be a tease, promise shit, flake out ect...so thru th past coulpe months wed be talking off and on but then we started talking again a couple of weeks ago and i remembered she goes to the same community college as me. and out of nowhere she says she wants to see me (last thursday) we hung out thursday friday and saturday doing multiple things ( food, amusement park with friends and being alone in her bedroom, prob like 50% of the time) and then she always promised sex but kept making excuses. she would rub me all the time and tease me but wed make out, boobs, and down the pants a lil. so i finally ask her why she did it (like 3 times) and she i told her "tell me what you want?" and before we discussed feb, fuck budies and eventually date. and she said idk. so i said well when you do find out why you do this tell me. and we havent talked in like a day.