ok what can you do if ther is a big age gap between you and your target... ie im 21 and the hb8 was 32. she didnt like the age gap so how can you make this a comfortable thing for her?

the other quetions i about a barmaid hb8 that im trying to sarge. last night i got into a quick funny convo with her and tonight i caught her eye but we never talked to each other. she didnt even acknowledge me from the night before.
what can i do in this situation?

thanks you guys

_________________
outsourcing my jokes since 1988

Reframe her perspective so that young = good and old = bad, and then roleplay that she's 21 again, all the while actually treating her like she's actually just 21. That's my approach, at least.
Bartenders are a bit more of a challenge. I'd recommend waiting until you get good at basic pickup stuff before seriously sarging bartenders. If you're not a newbie, though, use the stuff you already know to flirt with her and to make an emotional connection. Once you build enough trust and rapport to number-close, arrange meetings outside of her workplace in any way you possibly can so that you can escape the "customer" label.