Hey guys.. So I am 17 and never had a girlfriend.. Never really gotten that close to a girl before not even a real kiss. Im pretty popular and have a lot of friends. Im real confident and have had a bunch of girls like me. But I get real nervous when I get close to sexual situations. I haven't done anything before, so its just fear of the unknown you know? I wanna get it out of the way with someone Im not in a relationship with at first just to help me get comfortable with it but idk what to do!!

There are some girls that I wonder if they'd be up for it - friends I know through my sister (her BFFs) - probly shouldnt touch them right? anyways, Im just real nervous

so what should I do? I cant just lean in and kiss and makeout with her that freaks me out I need to get in slowly or get her to make the move or something. I dont wanna be rejected by a friend but IDK!!!

am I making sense? Its like sometimes when Im near a relationship I step back and want to have had experience first and then when im near a makeout session with someone, I want to go ahead and get in a relationship with someone else first.

dude, you're 17!!
no worries @ all!

give yourself time and dont rush. be cool. you said you're pretty popular, you're social skills are more than okay. so really, no worries.
go meet other girls as well than, outside your comfort zone. cinemas, library, mall etc. or parties, of course... parties

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Simply put
Next time you are in a party situation say

Hey omg i heard that (generic compliment) girl kiss like guys
Girl: BLAH
yeah you soo look like one of those girls

The key to the success of this routine is to playfully tease her into proving herself... in other words kissing you.

Remember have a huge smile and look playful. Being serious will totally kill it.
Oh and another plus about this is that if she smells what you are getting up to then you can easily extract with something as simple.
Well i guess we will never know

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you mean like "blondes" or "fat chicks" or "country girls" what do you mean?

Heres a good one that i actually got off of a gay guy who was part of a set i sarged

Hey ive heard people with that sort of jaw shape kiss like guys do ;P

Or say facial bone structure although that sounds waay too smart lol

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It takes a lot of balls to dump your old life and move forward ....... it also involves a period of loneliness which i have am figuring out sucks