I have yellow-fever like a motherfucker... I have never been able to get an Asian girl. I noticed that other than Asian guys the chicks date lanky white dudes and big black dudes... unfortunately I am neither... Any advise?Is there anything special I need to do?

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I normally try to avoid these questions like the plague but here it goes. I am a white dude and have always bagged tons of Asian chicks. It started in high school and I can't totally explain it, but it just works for me. Here are some pointers that seem obvious to me, but aren't obvious to most white guys that want to bag an Asian chick.

1. Do not let on in anyway that you somehow have a things for Asian girls. It just makes you seem like a pervert and that's not cool. Even if someone asks you directly just deny, deny, deny. For example if they ask why all your exes are Asian just say, "No idea, I can't explain it." Or "I have dated a lot of different kinds of people."

2. You must know how to use chopsticks perfectly. Since they always want to go out for Asian food this is really important. When you get the restaurant just act as if this is what you do all the time. Start using the chopsticks to eat and serve just as any Asian person would. You need to be perfectly comfortable with the entire environment. If you're great with chopsticks, they will compliment you on it and imagine you as the father of their children (think I am joking?). This is probably the most important test you can pass with an Asian girl. They are really serious about food.

3. Drinking with Asian girls is complex and you can divide them into two categories. The first category are Asian girls who are trying to act white. These chicks you can take to any hip bar and do a shot or two with. They will want to show off to you how they can act white. But do not let them drink too much as in general they have a low tolerance. Be a gentleman. Once you're at this stage the rest is easy.

The second group is the ABC (American Born Chinese) type who generally only like upscale places like a hotel bar or a club and don't really drink all that much. You need to know hot to really treat them like a lady and be prepared to talk and entertain them the entire night with your stories if you really want to score.

4. You must be very knowledgeable about all the different types of people from Asia and understand the cultural nuances between them. This is advanced stuff but it's they only way you're really going to get a lot of Asian girls. Example if you date a Vietnamese girl you must really be into eating Pho, ABC chicks all like Bubble Tea and Korean Chicks all love Bi Bim Bop. If you don't know this stuff you will seem really ignorant to them, and you won't get the time of day.

Don't have the player, hate the game.

Bonus: I really liked Japanese girls in particular and have a bunch of strategies just for them. I can post about them if that's of interest to you.

Mazinga I love u man.

I've been to Asian countries and I'm familiar with a lot of their different cultures. Japanese girls are my favorite too. So please share away. My concern is that asian girls might generally not like the way i look. Should I dress a certain way or act a certain way around them? I'm a big guy with a strong personality, should I tone it back?.

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It may. I am average height, 5' 10" and have very cute boyish looks. Japanese girls totally love it. I'm usually taller than them, but not towering over them. The proportions look correct with me and girl who is 5' 5".

I can only guess since your user name is Gandolfini, from Jersey that you're probably a lot larger than I am. The only thing I can suggest is get really skinny? It might sound stupid, but Japanese girls don't eat much. Eating and drinking in the amount American's usually partake in is very rude.

Here are some tips for meeting J Girls in New York City:

1. Meeting them is just like meeting any other girl. But you can increase your chances by hanging out in the East Village where 7,000 to 10,000 Japanese expats live. This is fairly obvious. Or you can meet lots of Asian girls at any of the art schools in NYC.

2. Get a Japanese guy friend. This is also obvious. But meeting a J Girl through a friend of a friend is the best way. My buddy who was Japanese used to set me up with lots of girls. He liked white chicks. We would trade off on dates.

3. A real J Girl is not going to like anything American. She will not like sports, heavy drinking, fast food or getting a tan for example. I lived with this J Girl for two years and we only ate Japanese food at home and out! You better like fancy shopping, drinking coffee, eating Japanese sweets and going to see DJs because that is all she is going to like to do.

4. It's true they are kinky but in a very non-western way. Not as much focus on physicality it's more psychological.

Best of luck.

I had an apartment in NYC Chinatown once. Talk about building an attraction lifestyle! If you're serious about bagging Asian chicks. It's as hardcore as you can get. It's says I am down with this and here is the proof. Plus you can't beat a morning after where you tell her to run downstairs and pick up Dim Sum. If you can't meet the looks requirement, perhaps this is the angle for you.

I don't mean to hi-jack this thread...but I am itching to know....why are American white males so crazy about Asian women?

I have nothing against them at all, but it most certainly sounds like a cultural thing as a result of your upbringing?

Can we start a new thread for this topic. Let's keep this one on point. My excuse? My step mom is Chinese who raised me from the age of 4.

WHen did god decide that asian girls became attracted to different guys?
If your not Black and your not lanky white?
Then what are you?

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I suppose you don't live where this is a large population of Asians? Go to any bar in California and you will see couple after couple, white guy, an Asian chick.