probably my weirdest post to date...but a valid one nonetheless...

im seeing this girl currently....she's really pretty but for some reason (clearly her weak self image) she feels the need to wear copious amount of make-up. people have actually commented on how much make up she wears.

she has no skin problems and looks COMPLETELY fine and natural without make-up.

i am curious and would like to find out why she wears so much when she has such beautiful skin (i will of course not leave out the beautiful skin part when i ask her .

this is more something you would tell your girl friend i know...but im itching to ask her. (ive known her 3 weeks)

i know shes quite into me so im hoping she'll wear less make up once she knows that i think she looks HOTTER without it. plus, it'll boost her confidence...which i love doing to people anyway.

what would you do?

next time you see her without makeup say that you think she looks great wihtout makeup. that way your not implying she looks bad with it!

Regards

Lucky

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good suggestion...lets just hope i see her without make up again!

i once told a classmate she looks terrible with make-up from that day on she never wore any make up. instead of telling or complimenting her without make-up just hardcore fucknig neg her by saying '' i think that make-up looks awfull''

when you meet her again (without her wearing make up) compliment her... she's probably insecure already so do some push and pull...

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yeah actually that's a good idea too. although if she is insecure then you might be better being a bit more lighthearted about it because you don't wanna come off like a asshole.

Regards

Lucky

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Doing something like this can work quiet well, especially if she is interested in you.

i think she's a bit delicate for that....she's quite a timid creature this one.

think i'll just go for....'you know, i really think you look so much better without make up....you really dont need it, you know that right?'

...What's wrong with just asking her why she wears so much makeup?


lol what is wrong with you guys

nothing wrong with that at all, its just that we all know the answer to that already. ie. she think she looks better with it on (why else would she be wearing it).

i want to convey that i think she looks better without it.....fuck it i'll just tell her.

and it's as simple as that.

I oftentimes tell girls that they would look better with some kind of change, or even neg them a bit about what I think they should change, and next thing you know they never wear that same pair of jeans again, if you catch my drift.

i just fucking tell her what's on my mind ...
if i really feel like the make up looks terrrible .. i just tell her

if she bites back or tells me im a asshole .. ok ... but at least im being honest.
il rather be a honest asshole..... being a optimistic liar isn't my thing.

when you tell girl you are just being honest they can't really bite you.

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I think make-up on chicks is awesome. I dated some girl who did this crazy gothic eye make-up thing everyday. I think you're over analyzing this.

I dont mind a little make up when a girl is out at night. Bit of a eye liner looks good. But in general I like the natural look. Im from a sunny country where people live a healthy outdoor life...the girls are tanned and beautiful and most girls go natural. If a girl wear's too much make up around these parts she would look a bit like Marilyn Manson ha ha.

It's definitely a cultural thing. In the UK the chicks cake on the make up and the UK guys clearly enjoy this else the girls wouldn't be doing it. Different strokes for different blokes eh.

Its not about over analyzing at all, its about what I like and dislike.

Totally makes sense. You should just dump her and pick up some chicks at the beach then.

I've done this, and the girl stopped talking to me.

She went from being super into me and txting me every day (But had a boyfriend, so she was afraid to close, you know the drill), and I told her "Today when you gave me a hug, you got all your makeup on me! I think you should go easy on it"

And she totally flipped.

I think she wore like a pound of makeup on her face.

She looked white like snow etc

Really pretty girl, easily an HB9 + but it's a shame I won't deal with low self esteem high maintenance bitches.

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